introduceyourself i'am tess! @zulfahrizal89

Hi Steemit Friends!
My name is zulfahrizal89 , I'am 30 years old from beautiful UK, London. This is my very first post on Steemit, so I though I would just introduce myself as all of this is new to me.
Let me just tell you right away I'am that kinda girl you Love or Hate.
I'am straight forward and you get the truth, no BS!

Where to start..
If you are a parent and your child is finally old enough to learn how to ride a bike. Do you expect he/she to just jump on the bicycle and start cycling down the road, turn around and bike right back to you ? Without falling once ?
No.... You wouldn't.. at least I hope not...
So why do you expect to be perfect at everything you try for the first time ? The reason I start with this is because I'am very passionate about failing. That might sound weird, but I really believe that we should embrace failure. And that we need to have a Growth Mindset, and say "what can I learn from this?"

I have realized that I'am so tired of the "Perfect Pink life" everyone is living on social media these days. It's crazy how this has developed the last few years. (baby's being used as accessories, dressed in "cute dresses" to look good, even before they can crawl) It's INSANE! So I will go way out of my comfort zone to share my real life, the real me, my real struggles and challenges from day to day. I will be 100% honest and share "as much as I can"
considering I have a husband and a daughter in my life!

Even tho it is uncomfortable (It is actually something I like doing because I always gain growth in the process) I hope to inspire YOU and others to take action towards your goals and dreams in life. I hope to make you realize that you are good enough, that you are worthy!
And that you can achieve your dreams!

Believe You Can, And You Are Halfway There!

@zulfahrizal89