Hi, I Am Alexander and I caught my fiancee with her co-worker naked in her office on valentines day

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Hello Steemit!

So today I left the relationship and moved into a hostel. Being lied to for who knows how long finally came to an end when I caught her screwing her co-worker on valentines day as I came to her office with a surprise of roses. I will spare you the details of what went on in there.

I kept the door open and shout to the other people in the cubicles, "Hey, come and look at this" and within a short period of time at least five other staff came to the door as I started walking in the opposite direction towards the exit. I threw the roses in a paper bin, drove to a buddy and spent the rest of the day there and also borrowed his guestroom for the night.

I guess I was venting too much, but my friend told me about steemit and got me this account today and told me I should write my diary here instead of on facebook which I am ignoring right now because there is way too much drama going on right now with mutual friends.

I would lie if I told you my emotions are not playing tricks with me right now. One hour I want to smash someone, and another hour I sit and cry and blame myself for not seeing the signs earlier - but one thing is for damn sure. I am Free! She broke the contract and I am now free to think about what it is that I want to do with my life

Now that I am free and need a place to live, I can move everywhere I want in the world! Any suggestions?

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you should move here in India :)

If the advice of an old man holds any relevance...get used to it! The only person in this life you can really count on is you! Time heals all wounds and wounds all heels! Love is a temporary emotion...true love only exists in the world of Hallmark cards.

You bring much wisdom old timer. I will take your words to heart.
Thank you very much!

Thank you for that :) I am still learning what all these things are on this website but it looks not too complicated. I think I like steemit.

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Powerful advice @richq11 !
Following both you AND @qxl now.
If you think an old man might be entertained by a young fool, @scan0017 is the ticket.
Alexander, framing is everything brother.
Thank goodness you found out now, while she WAS your fiancée and not your wife.
The situation could've been a whole lot worse and more complicated if you found out a year from now.
Reality is what it is.
You just received a gift getting a reality update sooner rather than later.

yeah, I feel lucky that we had not gotten married yet. Lol, her loss. Today I watched on pornhub cheating wives - there are so many of them, I think I will never trust a woman again.

thank you, WHO is this PLZ ?

Now this is wisdom...Listen to him, you got off cheap!!! Upvoted & followed!

@qxl - Would you like to breathe a sigh of relief considering an even WORSE potential scenario?
1 in 10 people were not fathered by the person they believe is their paternal parent.
Just imagine if you had had children with your fiancée...
Put that in your pipe and smoke it.
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I advise you to read this book.
You should also schedule a few one hour massages this week. Seriously, REAL massages, no 'Happy Ending' neon light sketchiness.
Your body is crying out for human touch.
Go sort that out in a healthy fashion, you literally need it right now.
Respect @richq11 --> thanks brother 🤝

Marriage is a contract with the state. When you heal, look into MGTOW (men going their own way).

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dude.. what a way to make an introduction.. sorry for the horrible revelation but look at it from the bright side... ya didn't get married and that's a whole lotta money and even more heartbreak saved right there...

Welcome to steemit bud... now it goes up from here

I am going to buy my first Bitcoin and Steem soon.
Do I have to pay $1000 or can I buy half a Bitcoin?

That sucks dude. My sympathies. Though everything happens for a reason. Hopefully you will find someone better in the end...

thank you for encouraging words.

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Thank you, I shall overcome... someday!

I'm sure you will and it hurts like hell when this kind of thing happens but ultimately it is better to know.

Words of Wisdom. The Truth has set me Free!

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Wow, sorry to hear this. As for where you should go, some people love mountains, some love the city, the ocean, etc.

Take a little time and imagine if you can go anywhere, where do you want to be? Quiet, loud, fun, peaceful. Location is only a small amount of happiness though. What you do and what you think is what usually makes someone happy or not.

hmm, good question. I like the mountains but up there it gets lonely. The city, well... not really ready to mingle with a lot of people at the moment but I could like to live in a suburb not too far from a city. I currently have lived in a small town where everyone knows everyone and the game of telephone... I cannot stay here, must move and start life anew.

Well, you have my attention, keep us posted. (Yes, pun intended)

Thank you! Pun taken :)

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Be gone foul demon! I will exorcise you!

Regna terrae, cantata Deo, psallite Cernunnos, Regna terrae, cantata Dea psallite Aradia. caeli Deus, Deus terrae, Humiliter majestati gloriae tuae supplicamus Ut ab omni infernalium spirituum potestate, Laqueo, and deceptione nequitia, Omnis fallaciae, libera nos, dominates. Exorcizamus you omnis immundus spiritus Omnis satanica potestas, omnis incursio, Infernalis adversarii, omnis legio, Omnis and congregatio secta diabolica. Ab insidiis diaboli, libera nos, dominates, Ut coven tuam secura tibi libertate servire facias, Te rogamus, audi nos! Ut inimicos sanctae circulae humiliare digneris, Te rogamus, audi nos! Terribilis Deus Sanctuario suo, Cernunnos ipse truderit virtutem plebi Suae, Aradia ipse fortitudinem plebi Suae. Benedictus Deus, Gloria Patri, Benedictus Dea, Matri gloria!

Btw. That is a genuine exorcism... Speech?

:D

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Great introduction-post, very sad story. I will be following your journey.
Equador, Australia, New Zealand and Peru are great countries IMHO.

Welcome to Steemit

Thank you!

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Thank you very much!

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