haha that was a long really long long intro, but i read it all and not having a hard time. first of all i wanna say it all started with the girls Everything starts with girls that's the only truth! i am too a small guy maybe smaller than you 166 cm so you can imagine :p but i don't have too much problems with girls (at least for now :P ) As you understood too you only need a little bit of humor and confidence and whatever happens except if she is a psycho, then start praying! anyway welcome to steemit the best community ( and i mean in , facebook and instagram are not even close) and i hope the best for you. if you have any question just ask anyone and i bet they will answer!