Position Yourself for Love in 2018.

Love is beautiful and at some point in our lives we have this longing to share, give and receive love. Most people are lost when it comes to the subject of love. They are confused on the right partner and qualities such a person should have. Love is natural and should not be mixed with passion. Love emanates from the heart, while passion has to do with our senses. Attraction and personality plays a great role in love. To position yourself for love, you must be sensitive and open to love. Attitudes that compliments love are giving, humility, honesty, modesty, openness, and faithfulness. Anything outside these qualities won’t stand the taste of time. People see and read your true self not only through your looks but also through the character you exhibit. In other words attraction goes beyond physical beauty.

Be mature in the manner you think, speak and act, someone might be taking note. Carelessness is a turn off for some people, but maturity creates attention. Maturity is not a reflection of age but a factor character and qualities imbibe over time. When it comes to relationship, the right character is needed by the parties to sustain the connection.

In the case of true love, the choice of a partner should be based on character. It is often true that people with lovely character, are radiant in their outward looks. A man who discovers gold in his farmyard, has the responsibility of taking good care of it. As a matter of principle people are not attracted to negative qualities like unhappiness, glowering, uncleanliness, nagging, jealousy, hatred, etc. So the important question to ask yourself before embarking on the journey of love, outside external beauty, what other genuine qualities do I have to sustain love. This question when asked genuinely, runs a scan yourself and processes the answers to you.

Never move faster than than the person you are falling or planning to fall in love with. Love is a journey and should be taken one step at a time. Do not rely on rumors or suggestive feelings to act against your partner. In short, the more mature you are, the more attractive you become. Be guided by love and honesty in all your decisions. Be the role model in your relationship, office, home, church, society. Let your light shine for the world to see, and learn. Be polite, honest, positive and treat everyone as yourself, knowing that love begins with you.