Don't allow your life to be controlled by these 4 things

Many people live their life at the mercy of circumstances living out the mercy of what happen to them, living at the mercy of other people.

Many people are controlled by things happening around them thereby limiting themselves to opportunities.

If you want to live a successful and fulfilled life, don't allow yourself to be controlled by these 4 things

Your Past
Other people's opinion
Your limited opinion
Relationship

Your past

Many people are stuck because of what happened to them, they don't look at the present but focus on the past.

The past has a way of holding you back from achieving great things. I have seen a lot of people taking certain decision because of one or two things that happened before.

Some don't want to go into a relationship again because of past heartbreak

Some don't want to try investing again because of past failure

Some don't even want to try out anything meaningful again because of betrayal.

But listen! If you continue this way, you wont achieve anything good and your will remain stuck in the past while others are moving forward.

Focus on the present, give a try even if it fails. Keep trying and keep neglecting the past and the future will be awesome.

Other people's opinion

Many people are living their lives for others.

The moment you start considering other people's opinion against your own good and benefit that will be the beginning of failure. You kmow why?

This is because you can't satisfy everyone, so why not live a life that is best for you? Why not live a life that you'll be happy with?

Those who truly love you will support what you do.

Your limited opinion about yourself.

The moment your start limiting yourself to great things that's the beginning of failure.

Many people focus on the things they can't do instead of focusing on the things they can do.

People tend to focus on the great mountain and stating reasons why they can't do a task without even giving it a try.

The power to succeed is in your mind. The moment you believe you can do all things, you will do all things. The moment you give it a try, the task will be complete.

Today I challenge you to quit giving excuse and look at every obstacles as a reason to start.
Great things come in a difficult way.

Relationship

If you're always needing another to be happy or feel complete then you're one step away from breakdown.

So many people have placed their happiness in the hands of another person.

So the moment the other person is acting up or neglecting you, you feel sad and devastated.

I am not against being in a relationship because there's no force on earth greater than LOVE.

I am talking of those who can't spend a moment alone without having someone to make them happy.

I want you to get to that point when your happiness doesn't have to be dependent on another person's own.