A Daily Dose: Remember this before anything else!
You can never go back to the past and change what is yet to come. You can't also blame anyone because what happened was all because of you. Your choices and ignorance have put you in such a disgraceful place.
You can say it wasn't your intention, but anyone can argue that it's all because of your ignorance. You can defend yourself, but who would be on your side? Who would trust someone like you who unintentionally made the wrong choice?
Indeed, we cannot grasp what people may think. Others may think the same as you, but others will not. In this world, some people act differently to hide their true intentions. You never know who is a true friend and who is the enemy.
People only believe what they see, and defending against massive numbers of different persona would be a grueling battle. You may find some comrades, but you'll face many oppositions. You'll hear unbearable words painful enough to break you from the inside.
A lot of people who feel worthless and small suffered the same circumstances. They were judged thoroughly incapable of defending themselves. And every time they were called out, they are treated like a virus that needs to be treated and vanished.
One mistake and you'll get judged. All eyes will be on you and gossips about you will be remembered not only for a moment. You will never live the same, and you might find yourself wary of others. You will be an outcast.
Why is it a big deal? Because we are the existence of perfectionists. We deny the fact, but we have flaws we do not want from the others. We envision the world to be a perfect society, so missteps aren't allowed and are treated irrelevant. We don't want what we do not want.
"Before you act, listen. Before you react, think. Before you spend, earn. Before you criticize, wait. Before you pray, forgive. Before you quit, try." - Ernest Hemingway
When we have done something wrong, why do we wish to go back to the past? Is it true that people only want to hear what they want to hear?
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