[How-To Series # 10] 3 Ways To Deal With Annoying People!

The world is full of different types of people. Some of them are quite loving and always share their happy moments with us and they give us company when we are feeling sorrowful. And then there are some people who are annoying like hell and they just want to prank us, no matter what situation we're facing.

All they want is fun, no matter how. Naturally, we all deal with such type of people at some point in our lives. Believe me or not, when you start to get success, there would be a lot of haters in your way, they will try to make you look bad, they will annoy you till you act in a way that would affect your reputation.

Let's put the success thingy out of the situation, there are some people who won't necessarily make you look down but they still annoy you for some reason. Maybe the person is the one who's annoying you OR maybe you're taking his talk in a wrong way? Well, it happens a lot. Misunderstanding ruins relationships, no matter what kind of relationship that is, be it a married couple, friends or cousins.

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But successful people are those, who don't let their emotions control themselves. Well, it also shows how matured and wise person you are. It is not good to lose the temper on the spot but rather, you should adopt some successful methods to deal with such people. In this article, we'll discuss what are those ways that could be used to deal with annoying people. Though the importance of each relationship varies and you should choose the method accordingly.

# 1 - Let him speak:

If the person is not much important to you then the best way to deal with that person is to pretend to be listening and let him speak as much as he wants (except when you're in public). If that's his general talk which annoys you then let him speak and pretend as if you're listening to his talks.

You can make yourself busy in browsing facebook or social media sites or texting someone when he's talking to you. He'd know that you're busy with texting and not paying full attention to what he's saying. There are two possible reactions from his side. Either he will get pissed off OR he will stop talking to you. Both possibilities have serious side-effects. Therefore, if that person is your husband or boyfriend or a close friend, then you shouldn't use this method.

# 2 - Warn him friendly:

Sometimes, your warning can work out really well. You should at-least inform him that you do not like the talks on the specific subject. Instead of picking the fight, you can give a friendly warning to him. If the relation is important then this option should be used. Say him that you don't want to talk or listen to anything about the specific subject.

But if it's the voice of person which annoys you, then I am sure it's your problem. You can't blame him for his voice because it's given by God. In such cases, you should try to meet less often with him but still maintain the relationship (except if he's your husband).

# 3 - Ponder yourself:

Maybe it's you who is expecting too much from his friend? Maybe your way of thinking is wrong? Maybe you think that everyone should be super attentive to you? then there's no one you can blame but yourself. In such annoying situations, you must study and analyze yourself and think about why something annoyed you so badly.

To be honest, it happens with all of us. Sometimes we expect too much from someone but when he disappoints us, we get annoyed and start to pick the fight with him. Just like it happened on Steemit before (and still happening). Some minnows expected the fortune for their content but when they got nothing, they got pissed off and started to cry how Steemit ruined their expectations. Never be such a thick head, dude.

Conclusion:

We have no right to feel annoyed because of someone's face or color. We are all human and no one has any control over his voice or face shape or skin color. It's given by God and every human is unique. His voice is good, no matter what. And if you are feeling annoyed by such things, then you're the one to blame. Sometimes, meta-communication plays a great role in telling the person that you're not feeling good. And sometimes, it is enough to explain to him why you feel annoyed, you can just friendly warn him. Just don't physically harm anyone because only losers react like that. Control your emotions, that's the key to success.