Off-grid Homeschooling
When we decided to home-school our two boys, we were still living in the city. The school experience was destroying their spirit and the school was also pressuring us to drug our oldest. When the boys cried because they did not want to go to school, we knew there was huge problems going on. My wife was also a teachers assistant at the same school, so she had an inside look at what was going on. We both decided to pull the boys out of the industrial brainwashing system and give our boys a real education.
I then studied the Alberta School Act and discovered that we could teach them the Alberta curriculum or make our own. For us, it was an easy decision. We chose our own! My education regarding the legal system was still very green, so we found a home schooling board that was very flexible and would accommodate our beliefs and goals. After a few years, we were confident we could do it without registering them each year. When we moved out onto the land my wife and I decided that the best education we could give them would be to teach them how to provide for the basic necessities of life. We still taught them to read, write, work with numbers and that sort of thing, but the basics was building earthships, barns, fences, looking after live stock, gardens, greenhouses, electrical, plumbing and other skills that will serve them well in their life.
We wanted to teach them how to think, not what to think and to have a good work ethic. I taught them how to look for information on line so that the can explore their own interests rather than us guessing what they may like. Science was taught by exploring the bush, observing wild live, helping with construction of our infrastructure and doing all the things we experienced while living off the grid.
I really wanted to make sure that they knew what hard work would teach them that instant gratification will not serve them. In order to gain the important things in life requires hard work, time, patience and dedication to achieving goals. I taught our two sons both sides of the fence. We explore what life is like in the fictional world while they lived life in the real world. They were exposed to both so that when they got old enough, they could then decide which path to explore.
We worked hard to give them the right to say no, to explore their own interests, know how to ask questions or where to look for answers. They know how to think and that is the crowning achievement of their education. I know that my two sons can do anything they want because they can learn and how to recover and learn from their mistakes! We made mistakes along the way, but I have complete faith in my two grown men! I pray that they forgive us for the mistakes we made and that they make the best of their lives. I now stand as a witness to their journey as they explore life on their own terms. They will make their own mistakes, but I have faith that they will do so with honour, grace and respect.






This is great what you are doing, well done, your sons are lucky to have you both as their parents.
Such a beautiful write-up to read with my morning tea, my toddler on my lap! These are the hopes I hold for my own children. We moved out of the city for this very purpose--my husband and I were both teachers, so we personally knew how soul-sucking the Educational System could be. So looking forward to finally teaching our own children Reality. Your boys have such a huge gift in being taught TO think by their own parents--so many of our former students seemed completely unable to come up with "original," connective thought if Google hadn't told them first.
I must admit that when my boys went out into the world, worked some jobs and started to interact with people within the system, they struggled. Their main complaint was that the people were stupid, could not think and seemed hollow. It was tough for them at first, but I think they are starting to come to terms with what has happened to people as a result of the educational system.
I am glad to hear that you are on this journey as well. I look forward to sharing more along the way. Peace to you.
Homeschooling is something I wish I had considered when my kids were young.
But due to circumstances of being a divorced mom, I needed to work.
Wishing you all the best with your homeschool decision
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Ya, divorce makes it really tough. My heart goes out to you and all those out there who did not have the support that we all need. Peace to you. Our homeschooling work is done. My boys are adults now, so the rest is up to them now.
Mental, physical and spiritual support all came from deep within me at the time. Made me appreciate more in life.
My kids are all grown now too. Five grandchildren too.
Proud of my family and our accomplishments.
Peace to you too
Bravo. I am happy for you.
I love what you were able to do with your boys! That will serve them well in life even if it doesn't show right away. I took my daughter out of school about a week ago because of the very same things. They wanted to medicate her and she begged and cried almost every morning to stay home. I see such a change in her already. 🙂
When we first started we were told no schooling for 6 months. The unschooling period was to help them deprogram and get back into their creativity. It is a very uncomfortable feeling as our own programming starts to scream at us that we need to do something. But working through it is key. The school teaches them to follow instruction, not to be creative and inquisitive. She will find it!
We managed to homeschool our children for a few years each when they were young, then they went to school. We should have been braver and stuck with it.
I'm not sure how old your boys are now, but do you think when they have children of their own they might consider homeschooling as well?
My boys are 23 and 21 and at this moment in time I would be VERY surprised if they get a girl friend let alone have kids. lol It is hard to say as their spouse would have a lot of influence over that choice too. I do know they they lean towards more open, self thinking ladies, so it is possible. Either way, it is their choice to make. We have worked hard to build a multi-generational family and if they choose to raise their babies here, then I'm sure our influence will play a part too. I would love to help them raise their kids, but the old paradigms are tough to break some times. We will see. Lots of time yet to see what happens.
Very good choice!