In Ukrainian, there’s even a phrase: "creative chaos" (творчий безлад). I always have everything in "creative chaos," yet I know exactly where each thing is. My future wife will probably find it difficult with me in this aspect, unless she’s will be the same.
That's a good phrase, "creative chaos." 😅
You mentioned something important and that is affinity, even if your future wife does not do the same, if she has affinity with you she will understand and support you.
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