Very good points that you raise... I will think about what I can add ;-))

Your example - very commendable. I have to admit that my very first thought when I read it was: you've been ripped off. It is brutally bad that we are already so disillusioned and detached, because it happens all too often that money and help are swindled under false pretences of need. I am sure you have done a mother good here without letting yourself be overwhelmed by such negative thoughts....