@emsonic, Woahhh. You nailed it !!

I feel very connected to this problem that is,the uncertainty of what to expect from the orher person . To get easily hurt and feeling of low confidence about ourself in our conscious mind. On reading your blog I was thinking about similarities in my past with the conditions you wrote. To care more for other .

This is a huge problem of attitude. Once you Discover yourself and fulfill your emotional void by yourself, uncertainties will leave your hand. You will see yourself more brave .