It is really wrong that if we make a promise and give a loan to someone, then the time of payment is fixed, that is, till that date, but when he does not pay by that date, we ask him from him. It should be said that I could not do it and I will return this money to you on such and such a day, but if it is not received, it means that he has broken his promise and the anger of the breach of promise would be the same. Yes, it is really a process, we have anger, ego, so we must control it, but it can't go away. Thank you very much for your post.