An outcome which has forsaken me since becoming a parent - a feeling that my life is no longer my own.
When you have children it takes a lot to be a parent, there is a lot of responsibility. the children grow up and eventually join in various activities where parents need to follow them up.
But it is probably not here that you feel that life is no longer your own
I would think there are completely different things that give you the feeling you are talking about.
I think we all have more or less to do with such feelings, but if we allow ourselves to be controlled by others, such feelings can also come and we don't even know why it can be like this
Owning yourself is taking that fishing trip, fishing with friends (show you like fishing) If you don't catch fish on the trip, it doesn't matter because you've been free while you fished and talked to your friends and you've been recharged your batteries. It's simply about doing what you like, for example going to a football match, a trip to the pub and enjoying yourself with others.
Do what you want and you will recharge your batteries
Think about what you want to do and do it because batteries need to be charged
This is certainly the key. Whenever I have any "free" time, I look around that house and think "That needs fixing" (the wind blowing some cladding off the side of the house is the most recent example) or "That job needs doing"... all things that are cluttering up my mind that I want to stop thinking about.
I've never been fishing. I've always liked the idea of sitting on a boat and drinking beer in the sun. Fishing rod not required.
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