My daughter was also born premature and we had to spend 1.5 months in the hospital before we were allowed to take her home. It was a tiny little person. Now she is the tallest among the children in her class. A child who was given little chance of survival is the best student among the children in his class. I think such children are always capable and more.

No book will tell you how to raise your child. The child grows older, she changes. The former carelessness changes to seriousness. I think everything is happening as it should be.