Is good to think, analyze since this helps us to focus and learn from others the experiences that we should NOT face, let me explain: It is not necessary to go through bad experiences to learn, it is enough to observe other people's reaction to these events and NOT emulate what they do, if on the path of life we ​​find ourselves with these circumstances we already have a reference and we will be able to face it better, in the same way the positive experiences that by the way are better since they help us to progress learning from others their ways of acting, but yes, be authentic.
I wish you a happy weekend