Oh, I know we can kvetch with the best of them, hun! But there's usually good reason!

Yeah, you're right... there's a control issue there. But most stuff isn't actually someone's "fault," right? Rain is just water falling from the sky... good if your garden is parched, less good if you're having an outdoor dinner party. But it's just perspective...

Maybe it's just part of the aging process, but I have gotten a lot better at just letting things be. How important are they, really?