I totally get both you and Herbie on this one!

And it tends to leave us with that very interesting predicament of understanding and knowing something on an intellectual level while not being able to feel it as well. There is absolutely nothing we can do, or so it seems, to bring the thought and the feeling into alignment.

I've tried to do the whole balancing left brain right brain to get over myself but it seems futile. There's just something about certain past traumas that leave a sort of emotional scar tissue that is all but impossible to get rid of. And it can become a bit tricky in relationships when we realize that we're holding somebody accountable for something another person did in the past.