RE: I'd rather hear the truth, even if it's bad!
Yes, I am also one of those users who primarily post positive things and leave out negative experiences. I always think, "Who wants to read something like that?" There were even phases in my life when I avoided my friends when I was feeling bad: "I can't just whine all over my friends, I can't just dump negative energy on them!" This thinking is wrong! Friends are there for you in good times and bad, if they are really friends. And often they are able to improve your mood significantly because they can see the situation from a different perspective.
This is also the case here! Your disappointment is totally understandable. But be glad that you have recognised the lies - you won't fall for the friend anymore, you won't let him take advantage of you anymore. You have been given a chance, you have learned a lot. And if writing it down makes you feel better, you've done everything right!
Have a nice sunny day,
Chriddi
I had the same thoughts you said. My purpose while writing the post was to feel getting lighter by sharing my feelings. I was very touched to see that my feelings and thoughts were read and commented on. You are so right that sharing all moods is also included in friendship. Reading the comments here and feeling that support means a lot.
You mentioned luck, I hadn't thought of that perspective before. As you said, this situation taught me so much that I gained an experience that maybe I could not possibly have by reading. Your comment is very precious. It feels strong not to feel alone, thank you very much 🌷