Do you think it's right to trap man with pregnancy

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It's @owulama from Nigeria.

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✅Do you think it's right to trap man with pregnancy?

No! No! No! It is not right to trap a man with pregnancy.

Trapping a man with pregnancy is a situation where by a lady intentionally get pregnant for a guy who she is in a relationship with , due to one or two reasons which is usually based known to the lady.

Some of the reasons why I said it is not right to trap a man with pregnancy is because;

1. Trapping a man with pregnancy is not 100% guaranteed that the guy will stay, trapping a guy with pregnancy as a way to keep him is the dumbest idea any lady can think of! If a guy wants to stay with you he will, you must not trap him with pregnancy just to keep him. Trapping a guy with pregnancy is at the lady's risk.

2. There is every tendency that the guy might find out that you intentionally plan to get pregnant for him, when the guy find out, the love he has for you will reduce, you will not be valued by him and you won't know how he truly feels about you. It is better to be chosen for who you are, rather than being choosen because you are pregnant.

3. You might end up getting heartbroken and left with no option than to give birth to your child out of wedlock, because the guy might run when he find out that you are pregnant for him and then you will be left stranded and will have to strive and work hard to fend for yourself and your unborn child singlehandedly.

Alot of ladies end up becoming single mothers today because of the foolish idea they had that they can trap a guy with pregnancy. Trapping a guy with pregnancy is never an option!!

✅Do you think it compulsory to marry who is pregnant for you when you are not ready.

To me it is not compulsory to marry who is pregnant for you when you are not ready.

Getting married to someone should be by choice and not simply because she is pregnant for you. When you marry someone not because you genuinely or want to be with the person but you marry because she is pregnant for you, there are high chances that the marriage will not work or rather won't be peaceful and successful, because it was not established on love but rather because of condition.

It is not mandatory to marry someone simply because you mistakenly got her pregnant, forever is too long to be stuck in a marriage which you are not ready for! The lady can stay with her parents and give birth to the child, then you in the other hand will take responsibility for your actions (getting her pregnant) and come seek for her hand in marriage later when you are ready.

✅Why do you think some girls involve their selves in this trapping

Reasons why some girls involves their selves in this trapping are;

1. They want to be chosen over another girl who the guy is also interested in. But the unfortunate thing is the usually get disappointed most atimes because, the guy will still choose the girl who is not pregnant for him over the one who is carrying his child.

2. Others involves their self in this trapping because of trust issues in the relationship thinking that once the get pregnant for the guy, it will make him not to leave them again, rather he will stick to them.

All this and many more are reasons why some girls involves their selves in this trapping.

✅Do you think that there are successful marriages that started with pregnancy disagreement . Share some stories with us.

Yes there are some successful marriages today that started with pregnancy disagreement, but just that they are really rare and hard to find. But that doesn't mean that they no longer exist, they still do exist!!

I know of a lot of couples that are leaving in peace and harmony today that their marriages started with pregnancy disagreement. The most recent one is one of my elder sister friend who got his girlfriend pregnant and never wanted to get married to her at the first place.

The Young lady family members had to force him to marry her because she was already pregnant for him and they said their daughter cannot give birth to a child out of wedlock. So after the persuasion from the girls family, they guy was left with no option than to come and seek for her hand in marriage. He paid her dowry and they got married.

And to my greatest surprise after the lady gave birth to the child, the guy developed one deep love for her, that everyone was amazed about the recent development. And to the glory of God, they are now leaving happily as couples, and the guy loves and cherish his wife and the child so much.

In summary, Dear Young girls, do not make the mistake of trapping a man with pregnancy simply because you feel that is the best way to keep him. Because at the end of the day, you will be left heartbroken, depressed, in pains and stranded.

Note: Trapping a guy with pregnancy is never an option, know this now and know peace!!!

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