Getting a good job is an achivement and I must commend you for your effort and dream come true situation.

It's also sad to read about about almost losing your family due to bad decision... Family is one important thing in a man's life and so doing whatever thing to protect it is very important.

I didn't get that part very well maybe due to translation, but I understood you almost get a divorce....I also don't know if you later did it.

As for your future goals, I think they are great and I can only wish you succes but you must be focus to achieve that.