SEC-S10W5 | Patience.
INTRODUCTION
Let me welcome you all with this Mr,Magnus story,
Who is Mr Magnus? This man killed his wife just because of a little argument of infidelity in marriage. The wife asked him about a little girl that everyone in the village is pointing finger at before the wife could ask the second time the husband angrily pushed the wife to a sharp adage where the wife broke her head and died instantly. This is what inpatient can cause. In this week 5 of the engagement challenge I will be discussing on the topic Patience.
Do you tend to lose your patience easily or do you control yourself all the time?
I don't know how I got the character, but sincerely speaking I am a very patient someone. Any where I go people find out this character. In the school where I work I specialized in the nursery section where I deal with children between the age of 2 to 5. There are children that are very troublesome that when you disciplines them because of thier bad character their parents will come shouting, just like the one that happened recently where a parents gave her baby 3 different types of food to eat so I gave the baby 2 and told her to go home with the remaining one when the child got home she told the parents that I don't always allow her to eat in the school ,when the parents came the mother in particular she started shouting asking while I can't feed the baby the food she brought. As I was explaining this woman almost grabbed me for a fight. This act aroused my spirit of inpatient I very angry that day but as a good girl I'm I was able to control my anger. I can't really remember losing my patience is has been a long time.
What is it that makes you most desperate or stressful?
The things that makes me stressful is challenge that tends to be beyond my control, if I try to do something and the result is not forth coming it give me headache and as well makes me stressful.
How do you avoid losing your patience?
If I lose my patience I end up crying uncontrollably, I end up depressed and weak so to avoid losing my patience I avoid argument. I walk away from the situation untill I'm given an opportunity or a listening ear. I can also tolerate just for peace to reign.
When you lose patience, how do you act?
When I'm upset I shout, lock myself up just to cry, after that I'm good again . I don't have the heart of letting my emotions control me to the extent of creating a scene for people to gather and start asking what happened. I don't like it.
What advice can you give us regarding patience?
If you read my introductory part of this post you will see what inpatient can cause so is not right to say stay out of things that can trigger your patience soul. The little advice I have regard to patience is for every to always have the spirit to control anger even when we are faced with the most difficult thing. Have someone to talk to when you think you can't tolerate anymore. The consequence of losing patience can bring a lifetime regret so build that patience virtue and live happily after.
I'm inviting @turituri @alegnita @alee75 to come and participate this is the link to the challenge
It sounds like you have encountered a challenging situation at work. Dealing with children can be demanding, especially when some of them exhibit troublesome behavior. It's commendable that you maintain a patient demeanor despite such challenges.
When it comes to disciplining children, it's not uncommon for parents to have differing opinions or misunderstandings about the actions taken by teachers. In the incident you described, the parent's reaction was fueled by a misunderstanding between you and the child regarding the food.
Keep it up 👍
Thank you my friend your response show that you carefully read my post. It's really challenging but I have got that strong character that helps me to overcome.
Thank you, friend!
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Impatient is a bad trait while patience is a virtue, it's good to know that you're Patience in nature, unlike me, I learnt every day to maintain my peace, to be more tolerant and deliberately restrained, and now I'm naturally patient. Success!
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Que bueno que seas tan paciente de forma natural, de hecho esto se ha incrementado debido a tu trabajo ya que es donde mas paciencia y tolerancia debes tener. Esta es una gran cualidad que no todos los seres humanos tenemos, aunque también es cierto que hasta el mas paciente tienes algunas cosas en las que logran causar un poco de desespero o estres.
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¡Saludos amiga!🤗
Continúa fomentando en ti la paciencia porque, esta virtud te mantiene aislada de confluctos o cualquier situación incómoda que puedan perturbar tu paz. Siempre digo que ser poseedor de la paciencia, es el camino a vivir bajo la reflexión.
Un fuerte abrazo💚
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