SEC-S10W5 | Patience
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I hope everyone is doing great. New week of season 10 of Steemit Engaement Challenge started and new contests are here. Today I have selected to present my entry to Scouts y sus Amigos community contest.
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Do you tend to lose your patience easily or do you control yourself all the time?
Depending on the situation in sub situations I lose patients very easily and get angry but in most of the situations where I know that my anger will destroy everything and that's the situation I try my best to control myself.
I never really want to lose patients and hurt anyone with my words but there are situations when you are out of your control because people need to be answered at that time and your patients and silence can make them stronger against you so in this situation I prefer not to control myself and at the time my patient cannot be controlled.
I am a person who lose their patients very easily in most of the situations but now with time I am trying my best to control myself and keep myself come because when I do not react at that time after sometime I become normal so it's just matter of time if I control myself for about 10 to 15 minutes then after that I will come completely normal and do not react at all.
What is it that makes you most desperate or stressful?
The thing that desperate me the most and makes me angry is the double face of people. Whenever I see such types of things I lose my patience and I want to tell them how they are playing with peoples and their emotions.
I myself I'm a very straightforward person and want everyone to be like that but not everyone's the same. They used diplomacy and talk and react according to the situation and people just find their own benefit and after that the change completely.
For example, when someone is very sweet and polite to me but they talk bad to my back and that backbiting they do after me is but I hate the most and when I see something in people, I cannot control myself and I just tell them on their face But you are not doing the right thing.
Most people avoid these situations and keep silent because it is none of their business to tell someone what is wrong and what is right but I cannot see what is happening in front of me. I have to answer and that's my weakness and that's what stops me from controlling over my anger.
How do you avoid losing your patience?
In some situations when I feel like reacting or losing my patience can create problems for me or maybe I will hurt someone with my words and the situations I try to escape that place because if I am there at the time I will definitely speak up.
The other thing that I mostly do when I cannot escape a place but have to keep patience at the situation. I try to keep myself busy and distracted from the issue.
I sometimes keep myself busy on my phone, sometimes pick up a book and start reading it so that I can avoid the situation and avoid losing my patience. If I see someone around that I know I went to them and start talking to them that helps me a lot in avoiding the situation and moving away from that place so that I won’t lose my patience and do not regret it later that I did something wrong or heard someone with my anger or harsh words.
When you lose patience, how do you act?
When I lose my patience, that's when things are out of control, I feel really angry and start arguing about that topic. I give very straightforward answers to everyone involved. I know it's not a good thing but that’s how I act while I lose my patience.
I also get nervous because I am aware of what I am doing and to whom I am reasoning and when I do so, my body also starts heating up and shivers in very rare cases when I am extremely angry.
Another thing that I do when I lose patience is I sometimes choose to give the cold shoulder and Isolate myself. I stop talking to people involved as I have to keep myself calm through it.
The most obvious thing that I do is I talk very harshly, this rare case but happens to me. I talk harshly and use tough language which I always regret later but at the moment it seems very right to me to give an answer on the spot which is wrong i know.
What advice can you give us regarding patience?
Now as I am maturing and trying my best to not lose patience easily and stay calm in situations where most of the people lose their patience and get angry.
When there com situation wind I am about to lose my patients and react I try remaining myself the after effects of what I will do now my action now will give me some bad reactions letter.
I may lose my close friends and my loved ones just because I cannot control my anger but if you do you may save your relationships and friends. It's my advice which has worked for me very well. Whenever you are about to jump into such a situation, remember the after effects of your action and try to remind yourself the good things about that person and how beautiful your relationship is with them. it will help you come down and not react harshly so that you would hurt someone's feelings and may ruin a relationship.
I would like to invite my friends @aaliarubab, @shohana1 and @malikusman1 to participate in the contest.
Patience is a beautiful quality we must possess, the good thing is that you know what triggers your impatient, so just continue working on controling yourself the way you're doing now and before you know it you will be naturally patience. Success!
Yes, with time I am acknowledging my triggers and try to avoid such situations.
Thank you so much for your beautiful Comment.
Greetings!
Saludos @janemorane.
Es cierto que la hipocresía y falsedad son cosas que nos pueden llevar a perder un poco la paciencia, todos tenemos ciertas cosas que nos incomodan y llevan a un punto en el que sentimos que nuestra paciencia llega a su limite, en estos casos lo mas sano que podemos hacer es alejarnos, respirar profundo y no darle mas importancia de la necesaria.
La determinación del estatus del club se refiere a la https://steemworld.org/transfer-search aplicación basada en la web.
Thank you so much for your review :)
¡Saludos amiga!🤗
Cuando estamos frente a la hipocresía y falsedad, nuestra paciencia se pone a prueba porque, es súper complicado mantenernos pacientes cuando la presenciamos y, en este punto he llegado a considerar que, ante esas situaciones, es imposible ser pacientes.
Un fuerte abrazo💚