Steemit Engagement Challenge S5W5 | "My Values."

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Hello everyone, how are you doing?, I welcome you to the Steemit engagement challenge for the 5th season, and I am glad to participate in the Scouts y sus Amigos community to discuss : "My Importance to the society ".

This is a very interesting topic I shall partake in, and I hope you enjoy it as well, Read on!!.

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Why are values important in society?

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This is a very tricky topic, and it's hard to make a say of what importance one really add to the society, I took this topic personal, and I shall explore my importance in my home.

I grew up in a family of 5 , with me being the first Male child, and that's a lot of pressure because most of my siblings were male as well, growing up, my dad wasn't always around so I have learnt to take charge and role of man of the house whenever he is away, not until everything change when i got admission into the University and I had to travel distance away from them.

But whenever I'm back at home, it's always a lovely visits, it brings memories of joy into the environment and everyone got really excited about my presence.

So whenever I'm home, there's always this presence of joy and excitement I get from my siblings, it has always been a memorable one for me, and the feeling of helping them out is beyond amazing.

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What do you consider to be the values that define you?

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I believe they see me as a safety, they seems to be more comfortable whenever I'm around, it's that moment they know of things they want to talk to people about, but when I'm around, they feel free and express there happiness.

I love my siblings as much , and they also have the same energy towards me, when I'm available with them, I try as much as possible to sort out their needs , creates a lovely memory with them even though I know I might leave the surroundings in any moment soon, but that little time we spent together has always been an endless expression of joy around them.

So therefore, I never let the moment pass, I create a Joy expression as much as I can , I make jokes around them, tell them funny stories, and we also see movies together in those moment, I have always love to create a unique memory , and something for them to hang unto while I'm not around.

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In what circumstances of your day do you apply them?

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I have always apply this anytime of the day, whenever I'm chanced to, or whenever they need my help and it's something I'm capable of doing, I never let the moment slide, I took it as my personal warebeing as much as it is theirs .

So I could apply this gesture in anytime of the day, they are my other half, there's no restrictions of time or moment or day they will seek my attention and I wouldn't be available, it's always a great feeling for people to count on you as their safety, it's a great feeling I also much enjoy and hope it continues.

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What are the anti-values that you have witnessed the most?

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I wouldn't consider the action of the outcomes anti-values, I would love to reconstruct it as they taking their time in the moment.

I have always noticed that whenever I'm around, my siblings tends to be lazy most times, because of how good they are feeling at the moment, I think it's also one of there way to express appreciation of my presence in the house.

So most times, whenever I'm around they get lazy of the work they are supposed to have done before, they feel because Uncle Badmus is around they could just do however they like as they will always have my pity for that moment, but everything slides in the first 3 weeks , then they resort back to their normal routine.

So I would not really consider that as a negative response, it's just a way of appreciating my presence around them, i believe it's what siblings love to do, especially when they meet someone from a long time ago.

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Do you think values change or go out of style?

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Yes, I believe ones value in the environment changes as time goes on, I have always cherish the little moment and the values I add to my siblings, because I know there would be a time they wouldn't need my presence anymore to access their freedoms or express their emotions as well.

I believe my presence is dominant today because I am older , and being their elderly one as well, it will get to a time where they will also be able to make their decisions without having to consult me, then the style of importance have changed, change is constant in humans, we are bound to change as times goes on, the best way to stay ahead of it is to be a positive change in the environment.

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Conclusion

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Here comes the conclusion of my contest entry on the topic "My importance in the Society", my home is my best society, and my importance is me being the eldest of my siblings, and the younger ones relies on my step, they watch my toes for there own decisions as well, reason why in any case, I have always have to think about the decision and how it will affect their actions as well.

Thank you everyone for coming, I hope you had a nice time reading my entry, we all participate a value in the community one way or the other, but our importance might be different, but it goes without saying that everyone is important, and everyone matters, we might be adding different or little value, but regardless, our existency is valued in whatever littlest form we might think.

I hereby invite @solexybaba and @josepha to join the discuss as well. Goodbye!!

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