Steemit Engagement Challenge / SEC-S19 / W4 | " What can you do for your friendship on Friendship Day? "

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I hope you are safe and healthy. So today I thought of coming to you with a very beautiful post.

So guys, today I am talking about "On International Friendship day?"

International Friendship Day on July 30 is a special day for all of us. We all have different relationships. Each relationship is different from one another. We act different unique roles in each relationship. Each relationship has some value. I think the value is determined by the amount we have allowed in our life for that bond.

But it is difficult for me to comment on the exact nature of relationships because we are not perfect and we all think differently from person to person. According to the way I feel is about friendship, about my best friend and the gift I gave her for friendship day, I will be happy to share my thoughts with all of you.

First of all I would like to say that I don't want to be angry with anyone in my life. Because we need friends to live happily and easily. But it is not main necessary.

Because in this world there are bad friends as well as good friends. So it is not good to think every people do good word for your life. Because a good friend leads to success in life while a bad friend can lead to our destruction.

Actually, if we want to know the exact impact of the things different people have in our life, we have to wait to look patiently for a while.

So, I have many friends in my life. But when I really look at it, they are only there for their own benefit. But no matter how many problems I have, no matter how hard times I have been, the only friend who has not left me is my father's, brother's, daughter.
He lives in next to our house. Her name is Nipuni, but everyone calls her Sumiki. She never left me anywhere. Sometimes we fight, but we have never been angry.

As for me, I don't never worry about people who leave us alone and leave our lives. Because those people leave us because they are not suitable for our lives. So we should be happy that those bad people have left our lives. So among such people, Sumiki is really very special and good friend

So I gave to her a photo frame made by myself for friendship day.

She is very happy about it.

The things I used to make this photo frame

01) A4 white paper

02) Colour Pencils
03) A pencil and an eraser

04) A photo
05) scissor and a double tape.

steps

01) Draw a line around the A4 with black pencil.

**02) Then Colour It use Black Pencil.

**03) Then it is embellished with various text with heart.

**04) Then colour it.

05) Then paste the 4to on the A4.

In addition Friendship is an agreement formed between them rather than an interpersonal association. Contract violation does not become a simple social process because it is created through interpersonal interaction with social formations. It is clear how the shape of the concept of friendship in today's global social system has adapted to a unique orientation than the past society.

It is clear how the interpersonal construction of the concept of friendship in a specific geographical boundary in history transcended not only the same geographical boundary but also the social and cultural boundaries. There is a powerful process that has undergone change during the transformation. A change in the quality of the concept of necessary friendship.

Although the strength built in the group in history is a strong point here, it is clear how the strength built together has broken down in the present. And even though the association is created based on the concept of friendship, it seems that the quality of the association has not been established.

This is not simple because he is a sociable animal, but also because he can build things necessary for personal and social development in the factor of friendship. It is clear how he himself has broken the basis of which man wants to join. Here is the method of breaking down the capabilities of people accordingly. It is clear that this is not a simple social matter because friendship is also a social matter that is built interpersonally.

A friend's unique quality is the nature of listening more. Nor is it to influence the other in front of you through all the matters in your mind. But today friendship has become a matter of strong suppression between them.

Embarrassing a friend or close associate in front of another person is a serious problem if it happens in front of him or her. It strongly influences individual and social development. These can be seen strongly in today's institutions, in which not only individual and social discipline but also corporate discipline is collapsing rapidly.

And a powerful thing is the possibility of exchanging understanding. In today's society, the ability to exchange understanding in friendship cannot be built because he is unable to understand not only about himself but also about the other in front of him, but also about physical and environmental issues and human social behavioral issues. Accordingly, it is clear that man is not able to build human potential.

It is not the virtues of the individual that should be built in friendship, but the virtues related to the covenant of friendship. Because the quality of the person can affect the friendship. It is clear that promoting personal qualities has a strong impact on developing friendships. Then they will be able to improve the quality of the friendship agreement. On the other hand, it should be clarified that factors such as friendship are not necessary for the satisfaction of personal needs in individual life.

What can be seen in the present is the concept of friendship based on approaching the other through all the mental and physical issues. Through these factors it is clear that friendships and interpersonal relationships are subject to corruption. This corrupt form can be seen in any friendship today.

It is clear that friendship is a process that is formed from childhood. Childhood friendships are not only primarily about physical intimacy but also become a process of exchange of expectations. But as you get older, the tone of friendship changes.

Then it becomes clear how friendship is formed based on social principles. But the primary characteristic of friendship that can be seen in the present is the way it has been transformed into a process of physical closeness and hope exchange that is built at a young age.

It should be clarified that friendship is an essential matter and the influence of many quality factors must be strong to establish it properly. In order to build and maintain friendships, individuals must have interpersonal trust. Not only sincerity and compassion but acceptance factors should be present in them and affection rather than love should be centered among them.

And kindness also becomes a strong factor here, but the mentally built quality also becomes an essential matter. Being able to understand the other is not only a strong factor but will also preserve the longevity of the friendship. On the other hand, friendship will not be exempt from legal issues. Altruism and generosity are also essential here because the ability to manage the behavioral issues that arise between them is strong.

And if you can forget the feelings that are not suitable for your company, it will become a powerful human thing. There is also the ability to reduce physical, mental and social pains through being able to understand the other in front of oneself.

Another strong point of friendship is that they can be happy together. But in today's society, it is seen as a form of assigning all matters that are formed in one's emotional or visual to others.

Accordingly, gossip is also a process of allowing one's moods to be interpreted in front of the society rather than the fact of the person subject to it. Accordingly, in order to build happiness in the meeting, there will be a need to correct one's own mental images and the vision he builds in it. Gossip has an unkind and jealous quality.

If there is no jealousy, gossiping is never possible. Accordingly, it is clear that gossip is not a single psychological process. No act formed in the mind will be solitary or isolated.

You know? Friendship is sacrifice. It is a basic behavioral process that focuses on fulfilling one's needs based on social values ​​and dharma. Accordingly, they must have the ability to become one mentally and behaviorally. Also, one should not only be able to understand the other's feelings correctly, but also have the ability to correct his friend's mistakes without fear of judgment.

A hallmark of adult friendship is the mutual letting go of built-up feelings. Attukkansana or self-realization or self-confident can be seen.

There are also many obstacles to building and maintaining friendships. Among them, voluntarism is a strong one.

Because of this, the person is not ready to change. There are strong effects in the mind about something or a process and it can also be identified as Grasthi. And the lack of social skills becomes a strong influence. This skill becomes essential for building and maintaining friendships. When such situations are centered in the person, they will not have a group of friends.

Implications for language use will also be important for the satisfaction of everyday needs. When he does not have the necessary skills for friendship, he constantly feels guilty and it will become a strong factor not only for his depression but also for his anger. There will be no mutual cooperation in them. Not only anxiety, jealousy, physical and mental victimization in relationships but lack of firmness in friendships will also have a strong impact on friendships.

Since friendship is built interpersonally, one of its strengths is truthfulness. But it is clear that not only the individual and social mind of the friend and the society, but also its process is strongly affected by false information and converting them into gossip without being truthful and building on the false opinions of the society.

Thus, friendship is not an association formed for the satisfaction of physical and mental matters, but a respectful agreement in which personal and social values ​​and dharma become an unbreakable fact, so we must understand not only to protect but also to secure these agreements.

So finally, I would like to remind you with love that friendship is another beautiful bond among the bonds in this world. So a bond becomes beautiful according to the amount of value we give to that bond with all our hearts. So let us all respect and value every interpersonal bond in this world. Let's give attention for those relationships.

So, I would like to thank the hindwhale (73) community for organizing such an engagement, and I would like to invite my friends whose names are mentioned below.

@paholags, @malikusman1, @starrchris, @drhira, @lhorgic, @josepha @radjasalman, @hudamalik20 , and @mehwish-almas

So guys, I will stop here for today. So I will say goodbye for today, hoping to meet again with a beautiful post with a beautiful place.

So as always,I am very thankful to all of you who read this post of mine, to the owner of the you tube channel who got the information to refer to the steemit platform, and the everybody who encouraged me with words and gave votes and comments for my posts.

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