You have better future plans ma shaa Allah. May Allah call you on his soon with your family aameen. And you witness His glory.

Secondly, there is so much poverty in the world we all should always look towards helping others. I believe at least if we can't do anything on a large scale we should always keep doing on a little scale. As much as we can afford.

Third, a man who has the will to keep his family happy is a nice man. he knows his duties and responsibilities.

May you get succeed in all your three plans aameen.