Hi @oredebby

I agree with you, certainly we can't evaluate the personality being carried away by the appearance, because the appearance in a certain way only reflects 50% of the real behavior of a person, however, the facts are an indication to describe a person, as well as his tone of voice, his look, among other elements. Your story is very common in marriages, and precisely what happened to that couple, is what unleashes the real behaviors of the husband or wife.