HUMAN RELATIONS: Greeting and Reaction
Nowadays, people do not say hello when they arrive at a place, or when they leave, because they believe that they will not answer the greeting.
If you say hello and no one answers, do you lose something?
On the other hand, do not you think that the people who heard your greeting and did not answer will feel uncomfortable every time you arrive ... and want to answer your greeting even if they are not used to it?
Next time say hello with the same sincerity and cordiality, repeat your phrase of "Good morning" "Good afternoon" or "Good night", with that you will never look bad.
It often happens that after a short time, some of those ill-educated people who do not answer the greeting, then do it, then others, and then others, breaking the tension in the conversational environment.
Thus opening the field to a more pleasant situation, to a more breathable environment of true coexistence.
Do not feel bad if your greeting is not answered, insist, You are an educated person and have instilled values to act in that way.
When you arrive at a place, say hello and when you leave, say goodbye. It is not your fault that others have not learned the enormous importance and elementary courtesy of greeting.
The greeting, after all, is something that is learned from home, ratified at school and proven to have very good results in daily life. So greet sincerely, cheerfully, optimistically, and help your environment while helping yourself.
HOW TO REACT
When we do not agree with the attitude or thought expressed by others, we react in a specific way, that is, we simply accept the opinion of others or accept it with reservations.
Many times we ask that this opinion be confirmed with evidence, with testimonies or in any case we do not accept the opinion of the other person and we lock ourselves in our own without admitting reasoning of any kind.
How do you react when you do not agree with something?
Generally in one of those 4 ways I mentioned above.
Do you always get good results with the way you react?
This is very important and the best method to know if our reactions are correct is to measure our reactions.
For this, we must know the "Mental Levels".
The First Mental Level is when you react without asking, without objections. We agree even if we disagree. That is, we accept what has been done or said. Our mind remains open and we are totally receptive.
The Second Mental Level is when we do accept, but only half. That is, with some reservations and protests what they do and/or tell us, even if we do not agree, we accept but we reply a little, we vent something.
The Third Mental Level, is when we ask that they prove that "white is white", that there are witnesses or testimonies, evidence that what others tell us is true, certifications of the facts.
The Fourth Mental Level is when we do not accept in any way what they tell us and what they do to us. So we circle ourselves and reject any attempt at explanation.
On what mental level do you react?
Next time, let's think at which mental level we are reacting, let's evaluate the results, analyze, and according to the result of that analysis we will react again on the same level or on another that may seem more favorable according to the circumstances.