Hello @amestyj
Complex experiences are the.ones that make us change perspectives, I have seen it many times, and lived it.
By thinking positive we awaken good emotions and energies in ourselves, and those good things are the ones we attract to ourselves, some see it as common divine power, others as universal energy, others as energy, whatever vision each one of us has, the positive is the important thing.
Hi friend @josevas217, you are right when you mention that there are compelling moments that change our lives and our way of thinking, I think staying positive and sure of things will allow us to take hold of what we do.
See you later brother, happy new year !