Certain Things to keep Confidential.

in Project HOPE3 years ago

A lot of times, we are tempted to share certain things with friends and family, this may be as a result of the need to have someone to talk to or as a result of the need to feel happy about our success. In reality, not everyone we consider as close friends actually wishes us well, there are people who will either feel offended about the information we share or even feel intimidated by the information. We really have no clear idea about what could be going on in people’s minds and that is a strong reason why we need to be careful about the type of information that we share and keep certain information about ourselves away from others.

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Topic on personal finances.

It might become tempting to discuss your financial level with friends and family but this issue of finance is something that should be as discreet as possible since it may expose you to certain responsibilities that you may not be presently capable of. Discussing your finance could also make the listeners feel intimidated, so you want to do all you can to keep topics that are financially related as discreet as possible.

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Your next plan.

It is not always a smart choice to tell people about your future plans, you may tell with the intention of getting other people’s opinion, but having the opinion of too many people will certainly leave you confused the more. Keep your plans to yourself, allow the next move you want to make your personal business and not something for the public to interfere in.

Topics related to romantic relationships.

Discussing intimate relationships with others could break your beautiful love life. Whether you are having a blissful experience or a stormy one, it is always unsafe for you to get everyone involved in something as personal as your romantic relationship.
If this is however a case of abuse whatsoever, then you should discuss it with someone you can trust. Being quiet in a situation like this one could result in loss of life, at a point like this you definitely need to speak out to a trusted party.

Confidential topics.

When someone trusts you enough to discuss confidential issues with you, then it should remain highly confidential. Keep such topics as private as you can as discussing them with another person might create problems. Signing documents that are also supposed to be confidential should be indeed kept confidential, no one needs to know about it, sealed lips should be maintained on the subject.

Conclusion.

Privacy is extremely important because it keeps you in charge of situations all the time but there are also moments when you need to speak to someone about happenings, any time you need to speak to someone make sure it is someone you can trust and someone who will help you with the situation on the ground (like a therapist).

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Hello @gbenga!
Sometimes it is healthy to keep certain things private, and in case you need some help it is very important to choose the right person to share with because not everyone is happy for your achievements or wish you the best, envy, competition or other feelings that are not good may be present.

We sincerely cannot explore the hidden height of human wickedness, more reasons why it is important to just keep some things private appreciate your time.

A therapist is always a very valuable option, friends are for those who think they need them, but as you say not all of them are reliable, also each one would see things from a personal point of view and not in the best way for us, but this is a topic for those who develop bonds with friends.
Thank you for sharing

Thanks for the helpful contribution @joseph1956

In life we come across various things that we need to keep confidential as their are some issues related to the topic which can harm our near and dear ones.

Keeping a secret is a very big task it's a cup of every one life.

Well written. There are things that should be kept hidden and confidential. The points you have listed here are very important. More especially, one needs to keep their secrets secret.

Nice piece buddy. Thanks for sharing

Thanks, @samminator for your valuable contribution.

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