( Achievement 3 ) // The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts

One thing I want to tell you here is that the thing I am writing in this post is that I did it for a contest. The topic of the contest was " HOPE AND FRUSTRATION" and the contest was in the hive community. I posted it there. Many liked it. So I'm writing this here.

"নাহ আমি নিরাশাবাদী নই,
তবে আমৃত্যু আশা করে হতাশ হতে রাজি নই মোটেও,
আবার রাজি নই নিরাশাকে অম্লানবদনে মেনে নিয়ে
আশাবাদী সাজার ভান করতে-"
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Hope is an integral part of our lives. Because if you notice one thing, you will not find a person on earth who does not live with hope. Every human being lives with hope. Such a poor miserable man hopes that by the grace of God he can eat exactly three meals a day. Every day a rickshaw puller comes out of the house in the hope that he can earn what he had hoped for. He is also a beggar, but every day he goes out to beg with the hope that he will be able to beg better today. Again, a student studies with a lot of hope because he knows that if he studies, something big can happen in life. Our parents enrolled us in our school. Because they have high hopes that we will be able to do better in life if we are admitted to school. In fact, it is understood that the thing of hope is in everyone and everyone lives with this hope. And it seems that there must be something better. Sometimes something good will happen, success will be caught, everyone lives with this hope. If there was no hope in people, people would not move forward. Never chased after success. Seeing that there is something to come, he moves forward in spite of many obstacles. Because he knows that if the hope is honest then success will come. Now one thing you notice is that the disappointment is also involved with the arrival. But suppose we don't get the desired success, then we get frustrated. My personal opinion is that no matter how much we say we get frustrated, we still have the faintest hope inside us. That we can turn our failures into successes. Behind the despair, we have some hope that our success will come. We try to find different ways for that. So it seems to me that the thing of despair is with a man, but he does not value this despair so much. Although he pays for it, this hopeful thing comes automatically to him. Because he has to survive. My words are an exception in some cases. Because some people become so depressed that they are forced to commit suicide. This article is an exception for these people. But if I think that ten percent of people commit suicide out of frustration, about 90 percent of them see a new light of hope. The thinking of these ten percent of people is that "they are not pessimistic, but they are not willing to dream of this failed hope." In fact, this thing, this thought is a lot of them. That is why they may commit suicide. And it's never right to do that. We have to work with hope. Success will come, of course.

If I had to say my whole article in four lines, it would be like ...

"নিরাশা ডেকে বলে, শোন ভাই আশা;
বেহায়া খুব তুমি মিছে ভালোবাসা।
জানো কিছু পাবে না তবু থাকো আশায়,
বেলা শেষে চোখ দুটি জলে খালি ভাসায়!"
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