Grandparents are really a blessing of Allah. We should always respect them and obey them. They always try their best to guide us properly.On other hand I understand the situations that you tell about yourself.

I can understand that how much this thing was difficult for you to have no job and to lost your grandmother at the age of 2 years these all were really a very big losses from you.

But I like to hear the silver lining of these critical situations. When we face Critical and hard situations in life then there are always something good hidden in it