Yes Jewel girl, I've come to realize that carrying hatred in our hearts would only bear fruits to more pains and sorrows. These hatred and grudges only deprives me and robs me of my own happiness. So, I choose Love. It takes a lot of courage and Divine intervention to overcome and surpass everything. I am glad I have my ten thousand, my spirit guides and my symphony of angels behind me, always reminding me that they have my back with God in the middle of it all.