that life is what you decided it to be.

You are right . People may claim that some hardships are inevitable but still coming out of anything is possible to a willing heart . As you rightly pointed that

Life = Vision + Goals = Solutions to ALL Problems of Life.

Sincere efforts with above philsophy is all that's needed to succeed in life.

is a saying that “…show me your friend and I will tell you who you are”.

That's very true . It is also said that a man is known by the company he keeps .

instead of using “can’t”, I started using “I do not think”… this gave me the possibility to think and create a solution.

You are right . Some people say i can't because they are not willing to work that hard through which** can't changes to can** and some people have poor self image psychology.

Rgeards