Steemit Engagement Challenge S3:W4 - Three things I'd change about myself, and three things I'd keep by @awais5

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Virtual Greetings!

Steemian Buddies! Hopefully! That all of you my friends are good and having a good day as well. I am Awais Rasool from Pakistan and being a citizen of the neighboring country I am very elated to participate in another unique Engagement Challenge which is organized by the @steemindiaa for the 4th week of season 3.

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Self Accountability!

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It is not possible that every human being is made perfect in every respect. If some have more shortcomings, some have less, but they are there. Self-responsibility is also a great blessing until a person fully practices self-responsibility it is impossible to know what is good and what is bad in his own behavior. It will not be out of place if self-accountability is also included among the secrets of success. In today's fast-paced life, it is becoming very difficult for a person to find time for himself. Until he is able to find time for himself, how will he be able to differentiate between the good and the bad in himself by holding himself accountable? Due to the platform of Steemit such a topic, I also got a chance to self-accountability. So I will first discuss the 3 habits that I would like to eliminate from my life and later describe the 3 habits that I would like to carry with me forever.

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For things that you would like to change:

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Man is prone to mistakes and being a human being, I also have many shortcomings and I am going to shortlist 3 of them and describe them below.

1. Irresponsible By Chance!

The first bad thing I am going to mention about myself is irresponsibility. Being the youngest and most pampered of my siblings, the pampering of my parents and older siblings made me quite irresponsible. Whatever work is assigned to me, there is necessarily an element of irresponsibility on my part. Not recognizing the importance of working on time and putting it off for the next time causes a lot of problems for me. It is known about me that even if someone leaves a little chicken with me, I will not protect it.

2. Mostly Relay on Luck Rather Than Hard Work!
The other bad thing I'm going to talk about in myself is that I believe too much in luck, I leave it to luck without working hard to achieve anything, a position. If it is in luck, then I will get that position or thing; if it is not in luck, then I will not get it. Instead of working hard to make this thing or position possible, I blame all this action on luck. Although a person should first give 100 percent of his hard work to get any position or position and then leave it to luck, in me it is completely the opposite. Blaming luck for not achieving, I put myself in further depression wondering why this happens to me, why my luck is bad.
3. Very Quick To Trust People!
I'm always quick to trust others, if anyone tells me anything about myself, it's in my nature to believe that person very quickly. I do it and later when I have to bear the loss when that thing is not proved to be true, and then I suffer from a sad state. Instead of thinking and understanding the words of others practically, I believe in their words by acting on emotions. Trusting people too quickly can lead to more difficulties. Problems that are more painful are those that come from hurting someone's trust.

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For things that you would like to keep:

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Now it is not that I have all the flaws, I would like to take this opportunity to mention some of my strengths which have played a very important role in making me more or less competent. And I would always like to carry these virtues with me.

1. There is no Resentment for a long period!
The first good thing I would like to talk about is that I can't stay angry with anyone for long. If one of my partners does something that makes me feel depressed, I soon forget about it and start the relationship all over again. The condition of resumption is that there will be no talk of the past event again. Thinking positively, I solve even the most serious issues quickly, that's why no problem can bother me for a long time. It is better to get rid of the moles as soon as possible, otherwise, with the passage of time, they become a pest that follows you to the grave.
2. Witty By Nature!
Another thing I feel good about myself is my positive humor and positive attitude towards others. It is not possible for anyone to sit bored in my vicinity. It's in my nature that the person sitting next to me is just mesmerized by what I'm saying. It's a quality that makes me stand out in any gathering very quickly. Even strangers start to feel comfortable with me very soon and my conversations with them prove that we were never strangers.
3. Avoid Meaningless Argue!
One more thing I want to mention is that I avoid arguing with people to a great extent. Whenever I feel that the person in front of me is going to prolong the discussion on any topic, I am very skillful in making him feel that whatever you are saying is fine, the argument is over immediately as soon as he feels this is my point. Because I believe that the discussion of junk creates bitterness in many relationships. In this day and age, trying to convince anyone of your point of view is like putting mustard on the palm of your hand, so it is best to avoid futile debates. It is better to stay away from such discussion than to lose your best friend by having a useless argument

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Closure!

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In the end, I can say with full confidence that no one can know you better than you. Self-accountability is the best way to move forward happily and achieve success in life. Just as it is important to diagnose the disease before treatment, it is also important to recognize the flaws in ourselves and eliminate them by fighting them vigorously.

That's it my friends' Thanks for the reading and I hope! now you are well aware of me!

I will also invite my three friends @numanfarooq @numanbhutta and @adnanyasin for this amazing engagement challenge.

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Anger is not a good quality and you have said that you can't keep angry with someone for a long time. That means you are actually a kind person. Not keeping anger in you will build up good relationships.

You @nadeesew my friend just rocked here. Thanks for your kind suggestion.

But my point was that Anger is included in the human instinct, some have a little, some have more, but it must happen. Anger has not been described as a virtue, but timely control of it has been called a virtue. I hope you understand my point

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Saludos amigo, la responsabilidad es muy importante para que puedas alcanzar tus metas en el trabajo, estudio y vida personal. Espero que logres trabajar ese aspecto de ti que deseas cambiar! Lo bueno es que ya reconoces eso de ti, lo cual es un gran comienzo.

Buenas fotos nos compartes, éxitos en el concurso

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