SEC-S13/W4| "The Role of the Caregiver ♥️ "
Caregiving is a very important work and job. In so many western lands, it provides so many employment opportunities.
In fact most of the immigrants from my country to western land basically work as caregivers. This alone tell us the importance of taking care of the elderly, the sick and those that have been incapacitated by accidents.
Even in our various families, many of us work as caregivers. It could be to our parents, children or any other relative. What is involved in being a caregiver and what qualities do they need to cultivate?
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Have you played the role of caregiver or do you know someone who has put it into practice? Tell us about it.
I have been opportuned to play the role of a caregiver several times. However, I will like to mention the most recent one.
That opportunity came when my partner was involved in a ghastly motor accident that left 3 persons dead. He was fortunate to be among the survivors but not without a serious injury. This happened in the first year of our marriage and by then, I hadn't had any child. I was very lucky to receive him alive even though he was badly injured.
The injury left him incapacitated for several months. He could not stand nor walk for several months. It was not funny during that period. He relied on me for everything he wants to do. Taking his bath, relieving himself, washing his cloths, cleaning the area he stays.
At a point I had to also help with his rehabilitation, assisting him to stand up and walk a bit to enable him take in fresh breath. The care giving lasted for 3 months, and it was not easy at all. But thankfully, he recovered and came back to his feet once more.
Do you think that caring for a sick person should be a team effort or the work of a single person?
The truth about caregiving is that it should be a team effort and not just leaving it for one person, if there are others available. It is a tedious job saps a person's mental and physical wellbeing.
So if there are many around to render such service, they should take turns to take care of the sick person. So that each person will still have time for himself and others too.
I could remember when my late mother needed care, the children took turns to care for her and it was easier for us. She was rotating where she stays in each of her children's house for those who were available to care for her. Others sent in cash to help care for her. It wasn't a burden at all to us all. I believe it should be this way unless in my case that I talked about above. It was just I and my husband. But we later moved to my in-laws house in the village so that I can have more hands to care for her since I was also still a student in the polytechnic then. My in-laws assistance was very relieving to me then.
So, I strongly believe that it should be a teamwork where there are several persons that can do that.
What qualities do you think a caregiver should have?
A caregiver needs to have wonderful qualities that will help him carry his or her assigned task. Remember, that a sick person is most at times frustrated and tends to vent out his anger due to that.
The qualities required and needed by a caregiver are:-
° Love
° Kindness
° Patience
° Compassion
° Empathy
° Attentiveness/discernment
These are some of the great qualities a caregiver should possess. Love will move that caregiver to do all he or she can to make the receiver of the care to be at ease and peace. Kindness will move you to do good to the receiver. Patience will help you to tolerate and keep caring no matter the situation or stress involved.
Compassion will help you feel the pain of the one you are caring for and this do all you can to be encouraging. Empathy is closely related to compassion but goes more deeper. This will help you to even go extra mile to help out because you can't bare to see the receiver in any kind of pain or anguish.
Attentiveness and discernment are qualities that will enable a caregiver to lookout for when the receiver needs anything at any point in time. When he or she needs to eat, bathe, change clothing, sleep and so on. The receiver will not have to remain in need for long before you realize it. You will be on the lookout for him or her.
What advice would you give to a person who is performing this role?
I would advice the person to continue to maintain the spirit of giving and self sacrifice. This is needed to be able to carry out the duties attached to it.
I would always advice them to make out time for their personal lives too and meet up with friends. This can help to ease off stress and anxiety attached to looking after a sick person.
Above all, they need to take the one they are caring for as their own ore themselves and this will help them to view whatever stress they are passing as nothing or at least, to be able to carry out their duties with joy and not with sighing.
Conclusion
The role of a caregiver is a noble one. It is hospitality in disguise and I love that role too.
We keep caring for our dependent relatives be it parents, grand parents, children or relatives so long as we live or we too can be cared for. It is just part of life.
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You've clearly showed us how you have taken the job of a caregiver when your husband was involved in a ghastly motor accident which left 3 persons dead. Thanks God for the preservation...
Team effort on caregiving is a powerful force! It's not just about the number of people involved, but about the way they work together to provide the best possible care. Team members can complement each other's strengths and weaknesses, bringing out the best in each other. They can also offer emotional support to each other, helping to prevent burnout. And most importantly, they can make the person receiving care feel loved and supported. So, when it comes to caregiving, teamwork really does mqke it work.m...
All qualities you mentioned which a caregiver should have ate right. They are the most needed such as Love, empathy, good communication skills patience and tolerance
Patience is one of the most important qualities a caregiver can have. Caring for someone can be challenging and stressful, and it's easy to lose patience when things get tough. But patience allows caregivers to see the bigger picture and understand that their efforts will pay off in the end. It also allows them to remain calm and focused in difficult situations, which can be a huge help to the person they're caring for. Without patience, caring for someone can feel like a never-ending battle. But with patience, it can be a rewarding and fulfilling experience
Thanks for sharing and good luck with the challenge....
Thank you for your detailed comment. You really went through my post. Indeed, I am grateful to God for rescuing my husband. Yes, teamwork is the best. I appreciate your comment
Such a big accident happened in the first year of your marriage. But your friend survived safely. This is the most gratifying thing, how painful those 3 months must have been for them and for you. Just thinking about this makes my soul tremble. You served him and he trusted you completely. This is the sign of a healthy relationship.
Those 3 mo this were very difficult. It was the most trying period of my life but at the same time, I was grateful to the Almighty for preserving him alive. I did my best with help of everyone around. I never even knew that he could walk again with his legs because one was completely broken..you can imagine the pain. Thank you for your kind words. It means a lot. A hug
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Hello Friend,
I have the same opinion as you on this matter,
Caregiving should be a team effort and not just left to one person, it is a difficult job that takes a toll on a person's mental and physical health. By taking turns taking care of the sick person, each person will have time for himself and the sick person.
I would request you to see my post also.
Thanks and good luck.
Thank you for your comment. It means a lot. Yes, teamwork eases stress and helps the caregiving to be easier.
Thanks, you're welcome @ngoenyi
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Hello! Your narrative about being a caregiver is touching. The love, patience, and dedication you showed during your husband's rehabilitation are admirable. It's true that caregiving should be a team effort, and your experiences highlight the importance of sharing responsibilities. Your insights on the qualities and personal balance are valuable. Thank you for sharing your caregiving story and thoughtful perspective! 💖🤍
You have really summarized my entry. That is very impressive. Caregiving should be a teamwork and the qualities pinyed out can be very helpful. Thank you for your comment
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I thank God that your partner survived the accident despite that others died. It's true that a caregiver should be kind, compassionate, loving and very attentive. Well done, I really enjoyed reading this post.
I really thank God too because those that were seating close to him dies instantly. It was really not easy. Thank you dear for your comment. It means a lot
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