Hello friend, it is never too late to change, we all make mistakes, but keep in mind that your ill-treatment will not always put up with you, as a human being you have limits and the time will come when they will say "that's it, no more," and walk away .

We will always need them because the people who endure the most are good, that's all you need to change.

Being a man or a woman we will always have problems, whether for better or for worse, and I think that your problems are generated by yourself because you say that you are very extroverted, that will always bring you problems until you decide to change, it is never too late to return to begin.

I wish you good luck my friend, have a happy afternoon.