SEC13 WK5: We are not perfect!

in Steem For Ladies8 months ago

Hello Ladies!
I hope you are doing well...

This is something I have personally experienced; we often perceive someone's life as perfect, thinking they are living a good life. However, NO! They have their own flaws and hardships. Nobody can judge someone's life until they go through the same situation. We are not perfect!


What do you want from life?


Throughout my journey in life, I only want to be truly happy and to be at peace. I need to keep my life simple by enjoying every moment that I spend with my loved ones. Family is what matters the most to me, I love to commit my whole life and do anything that it takes to keep them happy. I believe in the life hereafter, I believe I have this beautiful life with everything I wish for because I did well in my last birth. Therefore I take this as a precious gift from god to spread love and kindness to everyone around me to make my next birth a good one.

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My family, my world.

I feel I'm very fortunate to live the life I'm living today. I have love and care all around me. A beautiful life is a dream for some people but I have received it without any cost. I'm very grateful for the life and everything I have now.


What are your fears?


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My biggest fear is losing someone who is very dear to my heart. The thought of not having them around makes me feel really sad and vulnerable. It's not their physical presence that I hold onto, but it's the emptiness that I feel in my heart. I think I'm deeply attached to all that I love, and the idea of losing them in my life is something that brings huge fear and sorrow.

After becoming a mom, I feel I'm holding on to my life more strongly than before. Now, I fear losing my life not just because I don't want to leave someday from these earthly plans, but because of my kid. I just want to live until he is strong enough to lead his own life.


What are your strengths?


I consider myself a strong woman who can face any challenge in life. I'm a constant learner, and I have the ability to always shift my life for the better. I believe everything that happens to me is for a reason, and if it is something that drags me down, I can still train my mind to focus only on the positive aspect it has brought. Here, I relate to today's reality. Nobody is perfect, and nothing is perfect. Perfection can be seen in various forms; what is perfect for me will not be the same as what someone else sees. Therefore, I always have the strength and courage to do what makes me happy.


What are your flaws? And What can you do to become a better version of yourself?


I see trusting people a bit too much as the biggest flaw in myself. I always end up getting hurt after trusting someone and doing the best I can for that person. I consistently prioritize others before myself and suffer greatly when something happens that hurts me.

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To become a better version of myself, I believe I should free myself from all emotional attachments and learn to focus on self-reliance instead of placing excessive trust in others. It's more about finding the proper balance to care for others while also considering my own well-being.

In conclusion, we are not perfect and what's perfect for me is not perfect for somebody else. Therefore there is no set standard for anything in life. We can embrace our own strengths and weaknesses and just be ourselves in this journey of life.


I'm pleased to take part in this amazing contest organized by the Steem for Ladies community. I would like to invite @tharutharaka @zoyabhatti06 and @iffatilyas to participate in this contest.

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Being happy in life is what matters most the fact that you are happy every other thing will fall in place, you have shared lovely moments with your family members and I am happy to tell you that life will grant you your wish and yes as you want to put smiles on people's faces life will be perfect for you amen 🙏.

Every human out there is afraid of loosing someone that are close to them and I am happy to hear that you also don't want to lost people and things that are dear 🤗 to you, after being a mother your responsibility increase and you don't want to lost your life only because you are afraid of loosing it but because you don't want to leave your family behind and also your child.

I am glad to hear that yoi are the source of your strength 💪 it's so sad that people yoi trust end up hurting you and the worst of it is that you priotise them before yourself.
Working hard, learning from your misstake and changing your flaws to become flawless will make you a better person.

I am glad to let you know that your entry is really amazing and I wish you success 🙏💯 do have a nice day 🤗 mam 💯

 8 months ago 

Hi friend,

Thank you so much for visiting and your wishes…

Many blessings!

You are welcome 🤗

 8 months ago 
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Thank you for participating in the Steemit Engagement Challenge Season 13 in the Steem For Ladies Community.
I totally agree that we are not perfect and what is perfect for me may not be what is perfect for you. Best wishes my friend.

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