SEC13 WK5: We are not perfect!
The theme of presenting our own views is seems to be very interesting and touch to reality. Yes, We are definitely not perfect and can't live successful and peaceful life without support of our loved ones. An other true is that life is always a learning process in any age. So we can justify the theme of this engagement challenge is that we are not perfect.
Being a lady , wife , daughter and mother, Here's with going to share my own perspective to take about his myth.Let's move on to answer the following the questions to meet the requirements of engagement challenge. Hopefully my participation will also be meaningful and appreciated through your love and appreciation.
Living in the practical life, The concept of life in my views is that to live peaceful, healthy, simple and happy life with your family and your loved ones. Before getting married, I just loved for my self. I just used to take care of my self . But after getting married, And becoming mother of two kids , I am living for my kids. My life is all about to look after my kids and give to them my quality time. So , I want to from life to stay always in touch with my kids. I want to see them living prosperity life. They are the actual reason only of my alive.
Being Mother's, like every mother too , My fear is not to lose my kids or not lose my self too. I have seem many mother's in this world are passed away in very young age and left their too kids in very young age. That's really sad for them . I always prayer to Almighty's Allah that parents shadow should always be retain upon their kids .
I love my parents too, They are the only elders who support me in my happy and tough time. My kids also very attached with them. Death is reality for everyone we can't deny and regret it. Whenever I think about my loved ones lose, I feel fear and my eyes filled with tears. I just pray to Allah for giving to my parent's too prolong healthy life Amin .
My believe on Almighty Allah who always with us and the happier and healthier lifestyle of my kids and parents are the strengths of my self . I feel strong, stress free and boosting my energy level whenever I am in their company. They are all the reason of my active and healthy life.
Living in a joint family system and hold responsibilities alone on your shoulders and workout all the time alone it's not an easy task.We feel fatigue and weakness in your body to remain busy all the time. But when we see our kids smiling faces and spend good with them we forget every pain and feel fresh again.
I am not a social personality. I don't like the company of those who always sit for long time for ghosspis and waste their precious time. I can't handle the situation in which something going wrong badly. Means I am living in joint family system where in a women face couple of problems.
For the sake of my kids and my peace of mind, I stay back for those whom I can't understand and afford to disturb my family peaceful environment. I can't forget and meet up again with those who cheat me and back bite . I am silent personality and can't expert to express my actual problem. In short working relationships are very difficult for me to carry on. My husband is used to say me that's your fault not to have skills to sustain working relations.
As I said , I am very silent personality, I just feel comfortable and good in the company of those who are the reason of my strength and alive. I oftentimes consult with a social psychiatrist to how to deal and sustain working relations. But still I am not good. People who are good with me i also good with them and the people who are not behave me well I just step back and goodbye with good wishes.
I tried couple of times to change my lifestyle and trying to become part of social life. But this is really difficult for me to do that in practice. Well the precious time of my life is serving to my kids and family, home and Steemit is really meaningful for me. I just want to perfect in this engagement and want to be successful mother , daughter, wife and user of Steemit as well.
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Hello @uzma4882
Before marriage you only loved yourself now all you want is your child and family. You feel it is your responsibility to live for them. There is always the fear of losing a child or any danger for parents. Women in joint families have more marital pressure and have to listen. You have faith in Allah and patience, this ability will bring you success. Wishing you the best of success.
Hi @uzma4882
You made a good post on the topic. As you know death is reality so don't be afraid of it for you or your kids. Your strength is believing Allah, so keep believing he bless you and your family. Best of luck for the contest dear.
Not being a social personality may seem to be a limitation or flaw but it also protects you from all the drama out there.
Minding your business and staying in your space with peace of mind, this is great once you can interact with those you need to.
Thank you for participating in the Steemit Engagement Challenge Season 13 in the Steem For Ladies Community.
It's heartwarming to see how much you love your kids. All you want in your life is to look after the kids and care for them. I'm sure you are a loving mom to your kids.
Wish you luck in the contest!
Yes , Dear Mam , My kids are my life. I always give first priority to my kids comfort and peace. Well thanks for reviewing and valuable feedback.
Hello @uzma4882
Indeed family becomes priority when you get married and have kids! It cannot be over emphasised how important family is. Training up the kids and teaching them the right thing to do. Obviously fears of leaving your kids and fears of kids not succeeding would always arise but trust the process. Success in the challenge my friend.
My dear friend, it is well, the world is becoming something else.
Just like the burial I attended yesterday where the lady died and leave her son she just gave birth to.
You will be alive and take care of your children and nothing will happen to them.
Your parents are Lucky to have you because I can see the love you have for them