Choices! What will it be? #79

Hello to all of you.

Hope you are doing well!

Firstly thankyou to @patjewell for giving us chance and hosting this contest.

Well today i would like to express my views about word "Later".

There are only two things in a person's life that we do not expect suddenly and those are happiness and sorrow. I have said so because we keep trying to get happiness but it is achieved only by the will of God.

Similarly, we will say the same about dukhiya ghum (sorrow) because we never say that happiness should come first and sorrow or grief should come later.

This word later is small and even on hearing it, it seems like, brother, what is this subject, but for me, I don't know why, every subject is very important.

I think how much hard work the person giving the subject must have to do in selecting the subject. The work of changing it is also not that easy because he can also say that I will change it later, for that, perhaps the word later does not exist at all. Brother, a salute is definitely in order for those who do the subject.

I am tired of hearing this word later because all this is happening in my house. Ever since I got married and came to this house, I don't know how many times I have come across this word later.

Whenever I ask my elder son to do any work, he always says the same thing. What is the need of this work, we will do it later. What is the need of some work, it will be done later. Even during the days of exams, he has said this many times that he will remember it later.

Now you must be thinking that someone says this even during exams. I don't know what kind of clay my son is made of. Even after being 27 years old today, these words come out of his mouth.

You and I know this very well that we should not leave any work unfinished because the tomorrow which we talk about never comes, so whatever has to be done today, should be done today.

The word latest is also used in some situations like sometimes when we see a boy or a girl for marriage, then we think that there should always be some information, then we can say that or it would be appropriate to say that and this is also true, it is a question of life of both the boy and the girl.

We use the word later in another place when we go to buy some goods from a shopkeeper. Many times it happens that our list of goods is very big and we fall short of money.

In such a situation, what do we say that ok brother, we will buy the rest of the goods later. But many times it also happens that the shopkeeper is known to us, so what do we say that give us the goods, we will pay later.

So what I mean to say is that this word latest has become a part of our life which we can never deny. The same thing happens with me that when my husband says that let's go and buy the goods that you were asking for, then I always say that we will not come later.

Today I am wearing a gown because whenever we go out of the house, we go in suit or saree and after coming from school, I do not feel like going anywhere at all because as soon as I come, I start cooking and after cooking, my condition becomes so bad that I do not have the courage to go out.

I would like to listen to a very funny phrase connected to this word later. Maybe you will listen to it.

You will laugh, in my wedding in 1993 everyone was getting ready, then my beautician came, she asked if she would come at the time of the wedding procession, someone said she would come by 10:30, I said it is 7:00 right now, you can get me ready later, she started laughing and I started getting my sister, mother and younger sister etc ready.

then after a while someone came and said, hey, groom have come, my heart got damaged and the air at the beautician's was also bad, now we had a total of 35 minutes, you must have understood how the makeup in summer, that too of the bride, would have been done, in those 35 minutes this word later impressed me a lot.

This was the makeup done by her at my wedding 👇

After marriage, many times I went to someone's wedding or party etc with oil on my head because apart from Sunday, Monday and Friday, hair is not washed in our house and I went to many functions with oiled hair.

This word affected me so much and I am probably its living example, all this waiting happened when my delivery was near because my mother in law was out of town, so when my husband took me to the hospital and even there I was saying repeatedly that my delivery should happen only when I get back to breathing, from the hospital to the eunuch, doctor and many people were laughing at me after listening to me, what kind of a girl are you, she is waiting for her mother in law till delivery, my delivery happened in her absence, maybe you too must be laughing somewhere in your mind on this foolishness of mine.

In the end, I would just like to say that this is one such word that no matter how much we want to get rid of it, this word must have come out of the mouth of every single person at some point in our life, I guarantee this because no matter how proper we think we are, this word 'later' definitely comes out of our mouth.

At last i would like to invite @wuddi and @rossnenye to the contest.

Thankyou
@priya2205
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