"Educar a niños y niñas" / “Raising boys and girls”
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Hola queridas Amigas!
El que se nos presenta hoy, es un tema de mucho interés y gran importancia. Como todos sabemos, las comparaciones son odiosas y además no siento que tengan mucha cabida, a pesar de que algunos todavía persistan en la idea; en primer lugar, porque la forma de ser de los chicos de antes en la mayoría de los casos, no tiene nada que ver con la personalidad de los chicos de ahora y por supuesto, los padres tampoco se asemejan en ninguno de los casos. Indudablemente, un factor clave en la crianza ha sido que la información y educación que antes solo podía ser recibida en el hogar, y como factor externo, en la escuela; han pasado en muchos casos a segundo plano. El dinamismo con el que se mueven los acontecimientos y la información a nuestro alrededor nos obliga a movernos de igual forma como padres responsables.
Infortunadamente el problema de la crianza va más allá del color, oficio al que se sienta atraído e incluso de las preferencias del tipo que sean. El real problema se presenta en el _Menosprecio de los Valores_, en estas generaciones. Estamos viviendo una crisis humana que comienza con El respeto hacia el otro, de allí brota la falta de empatía, de solidaridad, de tolerancia, entre muchos otros que siento demarcan el camino a la crianza de un ser HUMANO.
Hello dear friends!
The one presented to us today is a topic of great interest and importance. As we all know, comparisons are odious and I do not feel that they have much place, even though some still persist in the idea; first of all, because the way of being of the children of the past, in most cases, has nothing to do with the personality of the children of today and of course, the parents are not similar in any of the cases. Undoubtedly, a key factor in the upbringing has been that the information and education that before could only be received at home, and as an external factor, at school; have passed in many cases to the background. The dynamism with which events and information move around us forces us to move in the same way as responsible parents.
Unfortunately, the problem of parenting goes beyond the color, the profession to which one is attracted and even the preferences of any kind. The real problem lies in the undervaluing of values in these generations. We are living a human crisis that begins with the respect towards the other, from there springs the lack of empathy, solidarity, tolerance, among many others that I feel demarcate the way to the upbringing of a HUMAN being.
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Hoy día tenemos claro que no se necesita ser hombre o mujer para optar por un buen cargo en una empresa de renombre y que tampoco se requiere un ser de uno u otro sexo para llevar a cabo los quehaceres del hogar, en lo que si necesitamos estar muy claros es que no podemos dejar la crianza de nuestros hijos en manos de terceros por la simple razón de que ellos son nuestra responsabilidad.
Es muy triste ver que se ha confundido la libertad con el libertinaje y se ha hecho un enredo de algo tan fácil de ver como es el género. Personas que, no sé con qué motivo, se han encargado de desvirtuar todo dentro de este tema. Soy respetuosa de los gustos y preferencias de cada quien; pero, de esa misma manera espero que respeten los míos y la educación, que dentro este contexto, imparto a mis hijos.
A los niños (hembra y varón), se les debe criar tomando en cuenta lo diferentes que somos todos los seres humanos y dentro del respeto por el otro. Pienso, y de esta manera he criado a mis hijos, que el hecho de que alguien haga algo o piense diferente a mí no es motivo ni de denigrar, ni mucho menos despreciar
Today we are clear that it is not necessary to be a man or a woman to opt for a good position in a renowned company, nor is it necessary to be of either sex to carry out household chores, but what we do need to be very clear about is that we cannot leave the upbringing of our children in the hands of third parties for the simple reason that they are our responsibility.
It is very sad to see that freedom has been confused with debauchery and has made a mess of something as easy to see as gender. People who, I don't know with what motive, have taken it upon themselves to distort everything within this topic. I am respectful of the tastes and preferences of each person; but, in the same way, I hope they respect mine and the education that I give to my children in this context.
Children (male and female) should be raised taking into account how different all human beings are and respecting each other. I think, and this is the way I have raised my children, that the fact that someone does something or thinks differently from me is not a reason to denigrate, much less to despise.
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Soy madre de 4 hijos, y a todos, incluso a mis gemelos con Autismo los he criado igual.
- Teniendo la comunicación como base en nuestra relación
- Respetándose a ellos mismos
- Reconociendo a sus semejantes
- Motivándoles a desarrollarse como personas, en primer lugar y como profesionales.
- Que sean de ayuda a los demás, dentro de sus posibilidades.
Los hijos, desde mi perspectiva, se crían para la vida por ello necesitamos criarlos desde el corazón.
Should boys and girls be raised the same?
I am a mother of 4 children, and I have raised all of them, even my twins with Autism the same.
- Having communication as the basis of our relationship
- Respecting themselves
- Recognizing their peers
- Motivating them to develop as people first and foremost and as professionals.
- Being of help to others, within their possibilities.
Children, from my perspective, are raised for life, therefore we need to raise them from the heart.
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Your points are excellent ma'am. Boys and girls should be given equal opportunities but parenting is not all about the color of clothes for the boys, their level of education, choices and others. It is much more, children should be taught respect, values, empathy to be able to access their equality level with other. The girls should have the right as the boys. Success to you!
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Hola mi apreciada amiga @esthersanchez, oye si este tema es bastante controversial de sacarle mucha punta para decirlo de una manera folklorica jajaja, si los hijos se crian de igual manera siempre dandole una educación adecuada con mucho respeto y darle oportunidades de escoger y limitarse en lo que ellos quieran, siempre manteniendo la guía y apoyandolos y que sean felices. Exitos un abrazo.
Esa es una manera responsable de hacerlo! :)
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Éxitos!!
Hooola mi bella amiga, así es muy responsable, un abrazo feliz noche.
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I hope you are well I have seen your post I like your post very much and you have done a very good job and I like your family very much you have trained them well. And I am very happy to see that your family is very cute, mashallah, looks very good
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Cada quien asume la responsabilidad de como criar a sus hijos siempre en el marca del respeto y la responsabilidad, la sociedad se ha encargado de separar la crianza de los niños y que deben educarse de manera diferente, pero todo es nuestra responsabilidad nosotras como madres decidimos la crianza de nuestros hijos
Hola, si, cada quien asume su responsabilidad, dependiendo del rol que les toque representar.
En un principio nos toca como hijos y otra como padres.
Uno hace lo mejor que puede en cada rol.
Los demás deben ser coherentes con lo que quieren y lo que hacen.
Lo más importante es que tengan exitos y sean felices.
Saludos y éxitos
Has dado en el clavo. "Cada quien asume su responsabilidad"
Ese es un detalle que nunca podemos olvidar. Ellos, hasta que sean suficientemente maduros para colocar cada cosa en su lugar y saber discernir entre una cosa y otra, son"Nuestra responsabilidad", no, del vecino o la del amiguito o la de la escuela con sus "nuevas tendencias educativas", es algo que sería bueno muchos padres tuvieran presente. Gracias por comentar! Saludos!
Hola, saludos
I had to translate what you wrote and perhaps the translater messed your text up but I 200% agree with you!
As a parent I did not raise boys or girls but human beings. People who show respect, who care about norms, values and politeness. Unfortunately, they are not treated in the same way.
I raised them and kept a close eye on them and I can't help noticing the sick remarks teachers make, forcing ideas upon children, punishing them if they refuse to demonstrate and how they try the child's own strong will. They even wrote that in one of my children's intern school report.
So with you I fear for the humans raised or perhaps I should say the lack of being raised and parents not keeping a close eye on their children, not communicating with them and refuse to act if it is against their principles.
Well written, you made a very good point.
Good luck with the contest.
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Thank you very much for your appreciation. As I wrote at the beginning of my post. Unfortunately there is a tendency to "confuse" freedom (everyone's right) with libertinism (do what I want, because I want to and now I even have laws that support me, no matter who I bother or the rights I trample on) and unfortunately, much of the responsibility falls on us as parents and I feel that this must change.
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I totally agree with you, it's what I notice too but I doubt most oarents will notice it or if they won't act.
Children raise themselves or are brainwashed by school and social media.
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