Steemit Engagement Challenge, S9W5: "If I were given a chance to be reborn

in Steem For Ladieslast year (edited)

Hello to the community,

Well, this is something fun and exciting from our beloved Ladies community. Because we always love to imagine things, stay in fantasies, and walk through them for hours. Sometimes, they are just hypothetical things. But believe me, I do that a lot. By the way, dreaming is the first thing in changing it into a reality!!

So, here it is for the Engagement Challenge season 09, If I Were Given A Chance To Be Reborn... by Steem For Ladies community. So, without further ado, I'll jump into the contest.

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1. If you could change that ONE thing by being reborn, what would it be and why?


This is a question that comes to our mind from time to time. Isn't it? We feel as if we have been born with this thing, or that thing. They can be materialistic or emotional. And when it gets serious, we pray for our countries, world, or society. We imagine, how life will be if we have particular things according to our taste.

Anyway, hoping that the question is about, something that we can change in our life, I will definitely love to have a natural talent for music. I have been a lover of art since my childhood. Books, movies, dancing, music, paintings, etc. But it's hurt when I can't perform them fluently.

One of my fantasies in my life is to be solo on a mountain, in front of a river, or in the balcony while playing a guitar and enjoy my own singing, of course with a beer. Music has been a special part of life, well listening to them, to pass stressful and hard situations. I always admired the people who have the born talent for it.

Well, I don't want to be a professional musician, but I do love to have the ability to sing and play at least a few instruments, with guitar, drum, and maybe a violin.


2. If you were given a second chance to be born, would you choose to be a man or a woman? Tell us why


Well, this is something I have never thought of. So, most probably it will be a man. Believe me I don't have any superior thoughts of any of the genders.

When considering the main genders, men and women, each one has its own responsibilities and great potential than just the sexual intercourses. The world is a combination of commitment of everyone.

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Anyway, I prefer being a man, because I already know what it's like at least to some extent. I have had some more freedom and privileges when compared to my sisters. My closest role models, father, and mother both have their own struggles. But I'm not sure that I can bear what the mother is going through, especially during the pregnancy.

Being a man is quite challenging, sometimes we had to hide our emotions for the sake of family and other things. Anyway, I love everything that I have as a man.


3. What do you think about transgender changing their destiny? (Male to female/vice versa)


I have no issue or problem with that. Because it's not my problem. These things are very deep and personal things that one will go through. Sometimes, those persons may not think of that at all in the first place. But these things happen.

I don't know why society takes this thing as a serious issue in the first place. Please someone clarify for me if you know. We people, living in the 21st century, talk highly about freedom, liberty, equality, and so on. So, the society should not think much about these things.

Your Liberty To Swing Your Fist Ends Just Where My Nose Begins - Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr. So, what's the matter as long as this fulfills?

Sometimes, these changes can be a surprise and unexpected for the close ones. So, as civilized people, we must accept these things and support them rather than any discrimination.


4. Knowing what you know now if you had to register a Steemit account, will you use your real identity or make up an identity? Why?


Well, definitely it will be my real identity. According to my experiences so far, it's been positive.

To make up an identity, it has to be something suspicious, bad, or hateful thing. Sometimes it may be due to privacy concerns or security. It's possible nowadays with the things we can see around us. So there can be a consideration of some people on this matter.

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Anyway, I will be all myself. We can actually connect with real friends, all around the world, and make a good reputation with this. It's more genuine and feels more comfortable than hiding behind a lie. I can actually share what I feel, what I am doing, and what I am up to with more freedom.

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So, that's it. Thank you to the community team for bringing this nice contest. I hope you will find it interesting. I invite @sachisewwandi, @irawandedy, @simonnwigwe, and @malikusman1 to the contest!

Until the next time! Enjoy!

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Best Regards!

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 last year 

Saludos mi estimado amigo que gusto leer tu opinión.

Definitivamente todos en algún momento soñamos con cambiar algo de nuestras vidas, en tu caso deseas agregar una parte en ella. Y es desarrollar más tu parte artística sobre todo en la música.

Pero sabes que amigo, está en ti que logres todo eso que deseas, la música es maravillosa y puedes aprender de ella nunca es tarde.

Ja ja ja ja ja ser hombre es más fácil, sin duda, lo que dices de la libertad es correcto, los hombre tienen menos restricciones sociales. Sin embargo las Mujeres somos maravillosas y es un honor ser mujer no sabes de lo que te pierdes je je je je je je.

Muy bien también creo como tú. El respeto es la base de la sociedad y sin él no llegaríamos muy lejos. Cada quien es libre de hacer lo que sienta que le dará una mayor felicidad, no somos jueces. Debe la ser tolerantes y saber que los transgénero son seres humanos iguales a nosotros pero con una situación que los limita para lograr ser plenos y felices.

Así es no a la falsa identidad seamos auténtico.

Siempre es un placer leerte.
.buena suerte querido 💖💖✨✨✨

Wow!! What a nice and an engaging comment. Thank you very much for that...

But you know that friend, it's up to you to achieve everything you want, music is wonderful and you can learn from it, it's never too late.

Yeah yeah! I tried several times, but it's not easy to listen to my horrible sound... 😂😂 I just want it naturally comes up and enjoy it in my own way...

However, women are wonderful and it is an honor to be a woman, you don't know what you're missing

Yeah, ofcourse. As I said I respect both the genders equally. Even in Steemit there are many women leading from the front. Anyway, it's fun to be this way once again... 😎😎

we are not judges

Spot on!! Just have to respect everyone!!

Best Regards!! 🥰🥰

men and women, each has a responsibility and greater potential than just sexual relations. The world is a combination of everyone's commitments. Both of them complement each other in managing this life, without one of the two then truly we will never feel this beauty

You are absolutely right my friend!! The both do have a great act to do!! Thank you for the visit!!

When we are reborn, of course it is very beautiful, especially the time when we are still given full love from our mother figure, I also hope to be able to repeat the moment again.

Good luck

Yes my friend! Thank you for your visit and the wishes!!

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 last year 

Well-creative blog. If you have the chance to be reborn, I hope you can sing beautifully. What God has given us always has something missing. That choice was made by God. Good luck with the contest.

Heres a free vote on behalf of @se-witness.

 last year 

Hello friend, your idea is very good, it would be very cool to be alone on a mountain and singing, I would change the beer for a coke hehehe, but it sounds like tranquility and being very relaxed.

I share with you that everyone is free to do with their lives what they like best, being a man or a woman, each with their gender and I respect them.

Greetings, I wish you good luck, have a happy afternoon

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