It's good to know that you want a mate that has all these qualities. There's this particular saying between marriage mates that for better for worse, they'll forever be together. Many make wrong choices of marriage mates that what they dream to have isn't the case as they can no longer wait for their dream husband to come which they never know when. Anyways, it's good to know you can't just accept anybody who doesn't have these qualities especially. Communication helps build a relationship as you've outrightly said.

Most people marry because of money and they end up not enjoying the marriage as their mate is just too busy making money to realise he has a family. Looking forward to seeing that time. Wishing you best of luck in this challenge and looking forward to reading more of your posts.