Steemit Engagement Challenge Season 2 (Week 4)| The Worst day and the best day of my life @sduttaskitchen - A true-life story!|Club75
Dear friends of this beautiful community, I hope you all are fine and doing great. While reading the S2/W4 contest posts;
The first subject where my eyes were stuck was the subject @steemalive chose for this week.
The subject may be familiar, but when we virtually endured those situations and went through them that time, we understand the real meaning of life.
Before starting, I would like to thank the @steemalive community for arranging such a lovely subject for the contest.
Another thing I would like to say is there is nothing called a bad day or worst day(situations may not be in our profitable status all the time);
but every day, we learn something about life's journey.
A few circumstances bring sorrow and some joy, but every crisis comes to teach us the value of everything.
If we don't go through the thrashing;
then we never understand the value of achieving.
Now let me share two factual incidents of my life among the many;
One is a blessed incident, and another is the most tragic circumstance of my life.
Firstly I will start with the wretched event of my life because that was the beginning of my life struggle. Believe me, while writing these lines, I am still quivering.
THE DAY I LOST MY MOTHER FOREVER
Though I lost both my parents, but I lost my mother when I was only 12;
Everything first-time always gives us the most shocking moment, whether it's the best or worst.
My father was an engineer for Indian airlines, and at that time;
He was posted at Silchar(A place in Assam).
My mother left me at my aunt's house(often, I shared about my aunt and her house in my posts).
And my elder sister and my mother went to visit my father at Silchar. Because before that, I stayed there with my mother;
and now it's my elder sister's turn to stay with my father.
I was in the seventh standard, and my elder sister was in the ninth standard.
One day during my mother's visit to Silchar, another aunt came to take me back to my home;
and I noticed the atmosphere was not ordinary. They were whispering and asked me to get ready because my mother was coming back.
I asked my aunt that my mother went there for a week, and it was only three days that she went to Silchar.
All of a sudden! a word came out of my mouth that my mother is no more. Even today, I don't know how those words came to my mind!
Anyway, on the same evening, my mother came back from Silchar, but inside the coffin, (oh God! I can't continue, please give me the strength to finish).
That day I noticed that there was no place to stand because of the crowd of people; my father and elder sister were crying, but I was shocked and asked my sister what happened to our mother?
(My elder sister)My sister told me that it was heart failure, and I asked, did People die of heart failure!
I was not aware of anything, and later I got to know;
that was a suicide that my mother committed.
From the very next day, our life changed completely;
We have seen the actual side of our relatives and their behavior.
My father got married again, and life threw us in front of a new challenge.
1.I learned that no one takes the best care of you;
better than your mother. Always show your respect to her.
2.Nothing is permanent in life; even your best relationship can change with time.
3.We all have to accept the challenges that time and our fortune decide.
That was the worst moment of my life, and after that, my life only went through different challenges. Even today, I stay alone in a rented flat and persist.
BEST MOMENT(DAY) OF MY LIFE
Before sharing my best moment and the day with you, I have to share some information before that moment.
At that time, I was working in a sim service company, but when that company closed;
I went for an interview with an NGO. But during the telephonic round, I was rejected.
The assistant manager may notice some potential in me;
so he again called me for the second-round interview.
Anyway that time I was selected for the job.
In the beginning, a girl named Priya was fabulous in her performance and that was my first outbound job.
I thought I would not be able to continue this job and was disheartened.
But during training, I have seen the people are suffering from different diseases and their conditions and life is much more difficult than mine.
I decided, I will do something for them and will continue the job. From the second month to the end I was the top performer for that NGO.
I received several certificates during my job. I collect donations for almost 2500 children during my job.
The day I received my first appreciation certificate and the trophy was the best day of my life.
1.I learned never to give up before you reach your target.
2.If you want to overcome your suffering, look at those people who are in a much more problematic situation.
3.Think about others selflessly besides your self desires.
CONCLUSION
Life is a hard teacher and it often takes tests on our patience and honesty. Often we give up while going through failure and lose our patience.
No one can understand your pain, you have to carry them within you and have to use them as an experience.
Life and choice are ours, we have to decide on which path we will follow.
Everything comes to our path to teach us something valuable about our life that we can't learn from any institution or any books.
These are the real-life stories I shared today with you all. Thank you once again, for the contest. always stay blessed, happy, and healthy. Take care of yourself and others too.
I WOULD LIKE TO INVITE @piudey @monz122 and @lother68 for the contest.
Hello dear @sduttaskitchen,
Your worst day experience is so pathetic. I can imagine the pains losing a mom. I have been in thesame shoes like you because I also when through pains and agony when I lost my mom. It was like the world have ended for me
I'm so so sorry to hear about what your dad did after your mom's death as he got married to another wife which added and made life difficult for you people as you guys where not well treated.
Life is not always give us pleasure moments, majority part we went through several challenges. Thank you for your comments and visit
That's right my dear. Life is not straight like a ruler because we most come across obstacles. But the important part is never to give up
I can imagine the situation you and your sister found yourselves when your father got married to another woman. Sorry about the death of your mom and all the pains you pass through.
No one can treat a child like his own mother. I believe that with you.
Thank you for your visit and comment. It very true that apart from our mother no one else can understand us better in life.
Losing the people we love is absolutely pathetic, may she find peace wherever she is that i pray for you. Goodluck in this contest.
Thank you for your best wishes, life is a something always show us the real side, and when we loose our near once we understand their value after that.
You are absolutely right. We do not know how important a thing is to is until ww lose it. Greetings!
You have a good to be who you are, as an act, if kindness you have some you are been rewarded in ten folds, we all at some point will face challenges, so pay huge prices and some don't pay enough but can we compare a bad situation, the worst day is the worst day, I had lost my mom to but I was older then you, I knew life was a give and take, nothing is permanent, in had realized life is like a coin, they are of two sides.
Greeting and blessing
A comment on my publication would be appreciated
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Every day comes with some knowledge and experience, and I am still learning several things about life and the people around me. Sorry for late reply as I belong from India it was late night when I shared my post so unable to make comment.
It okay, you can reply to my comment anytime I get we all have time differences. You have said a lot about life
I feel your pain because I know what it takes for someone to lost his/her mother at a very young age. Growing up without a mother is sometime worrisome. Sorry for the demised of your lovely Mom.
I am happy that today you have the reason to smile keep on smiling and enjoy every moment of your life. Best of luck.
Thank you so much for your visit. You are absolutely right, without mother life become difficult to handle.
We have to be always prepared for what ever might happen to us in this life. In this life time we can have only one mother and he will treat us very well no matter the situation we find ourselves. Loosing our mother is something that will happen and that void might never be filled . But I hope you have the strength to go through it.
In life I think the most beneficial and heart satisfying thing is when you are able to put smile on the face of people when you extend a helping hand to them.
You feel very accomplished and I hope you are able to touch more and more lives whilst working for this NGO.
I'm glad things worked out well for you at your job.
It's never easy to lose a parent. Sorry about the loss of your mum.
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You have written so well my dear.The death of your mum is a sad experience,I feel your pains.There is always a difference between once real mother and one's step-mother.Glad you have lived above the loss.
This is indeed a cause for celebration and immense joy.It is good never to give up in life irrespective of the odds.
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Thank you so much for your feedback, and lovely comment. Stay blessed.
And you too.I appreciate your warm response.We all have some bitter stories at one point or the other in our lives.However,the good stories makes us to thank God and forget the bad conditions.