Steemit Engagement Challenge Season 2 Week 4 | The Worst day and the best day of your life || by @osiola.

I have experienced a lot of things in my life and I wish I have never existed in this world but I still force myself to smile because I have no other options but to make myself happy does the only thing to solve it.

to tell you guys about the worst day of my life; my friend have stolen my phone at the store when I was busy selling boost to a customer when my father die when I was still young, when I have broken my arms once’s and I have an accident on my way going to school and when I have had my First heartbreak in a relationship and I had a lot of worst day in my life.

Come to look at all I have mentioned the worst among all of them was the death of my father when I was still in primary two when my father died that was the worst day of my life.

My father's death has changed my dream because at first being a football was my dream but when my father died my dream was change and I was forced to go to school, I like playing football when I was young and I was my team captain and my coach like me a lot When i was playing and when my father dies football boost to play football was a very big problem and I told my uncle to buy football boost to me and he was giving me stories and I have no other options than to stop playing football and concentrate on my school since I have no support form the family member.

It all started like this my father was already sick but he was still active but this was the sickness which causes the death of my father one day we were just in our compound and my father was lying on a chair and he shouted
Once my thigh and we all rush to my father and asked why he shouted like that he told us he don’t know what has happened to his think he can’t move his thigh again.

that was how my father sickness started we all help my father to his room and the next day they started treating my father in the local ways and they continue treating my father the local ways and things weren’t changing and someday they took my father to the tamale teaching hospital and for them to treat my father and when they started treating him he was getting better every day and it was my senior brother who was taking care of my father till one day my mommy cook and sent it to the hospital to give to my father and his condition was getting worst.

And they called the doctors they should come and look at my father condition and my father told my senior brother that he won’t make this journey meaning he won’t make it again and by the time the nurses and doctor came he was already dead and it was only my mommy and brother was at the hospital and they didn’t tell us my father was dead when they were still at the hospital and me my self I knew my father wouldn’t go make it

I was still at school and when I came back from school I saw plenty of people seated outside our house compound and I didn’t ask anyone anything and I went to my mommy's room and I saw my mommy crying and she told me my father was dead and I could not believe it and I asked her again and she told me my father was dead and I didn’t cry and my heart started beating and as my mommy was crying her blood pressure goes up and up to now my mommy is still battling with high blood pressure and the thing started to change and that is the way we used to eat and clothes and everything about us and those who used to care about us ignore us and mommy wasn’t working so pressure keeps on mounting mommy every day and night and that was the wrong day of my life.

• It’s good to always thank God for keeping your parents alive because you don’t know what will happen to you in their absence their presence means a lot to you.

• Having both your mommy and father by your side is the best thing that can happen in a person's life.

• Make use of the limited opportunity you have with your parents when they are still alive.

• Don’t put much trust in person because you can’t be disappointed at anytime

a lot of things have happened in your life and which makes us believe that we should never give up in life no matter what we go through Just have hopes in life.

After telling you guys about my worst day and I will like to tell you about good days too one can’t be having a bad day too and not having good days too.

I have had a lot of good days ; when I made my first ten thousand, my senior brother getting married, being introduced to the steemit platform, etc all mentioned, the best day of my life is my senior brother getting married was my happiest day on earth.

it was started like this that was lasted during the fasting period the marriage date of my senior brother came out and I was very happy because at long last the battle has ended and I shared it to my friends to post it via WhatsApp and we shared it to most of our friends to post on their status and a lot my friends posted it.

The date of the wedding was 7/11/2021. and I wanted this day to reach faster because I have never seen any of my brother doing a wedding and when it was 5/11/2021 Friday we kill a cow in the day early in the morning and they sent some of the meat to the ladies and they remain meat were left in our house and that was the meat they where going to used to cook that day up to the wedding day.

On the next day which was 6/11/2021. We started setting things like arranging chairs and canopies etc and doing the needful work and our family members from villages came to our house those we know and those we didn’t know all came and I have to leave my room and give it to them because they don’t have any place to sleep so I slept on a friendly place that day.

So the next day which was the wedding day 7/11/2021 most of my friends from outside tamale and Accra all came and some of my friends came to surprise me and when my senior brother came outside early in the morning we went to the lady's house for them or the parent and Mallam’s to blessing marriage after they were done we came back to the house to share take always and everything well successfully about my senior brother's marriage that was the best day in my life and I can never forget this day.

• When you are married to the right woman it may pave a way for survival opportunities for you but when you marry the wrong woman and you aren’t lucky you will suffer for the rest of your life.

• Marriage brings a lot of happiness in a family, especially those you think we’re not your family you will get to know them.

• It’s always good to make friends with a lot of people because during this time you don’t know who is going to help you friends help a lot in life.

I will like to thank you all for taking your time and energy to always go throughout my post.

THANK YOU!!!