Steemalive presents:prowritersHub(w6):should the first born child of a family be male or female

PREAMBLE

Greetings from me to you all, hope everything is working just normal, it my second entry to this very contest @steemalive has brought to us.

Should the first child be male and female

Its a very happy thing to hear that a baby has been born in a family, that alright, we will be like asking if the baby is a girl or boy, at this point I think that the position of first issue should go to a boy, is best for a boy, he be of a very good help and support to the family, in so many areas, when he grows up, he will financially, manpower services etc.

Advantages of the male child, if he is the first issue.

There are so many merits in having a male child as the first born.
. Speaking for the family :when the father is not around or no more (dead) he will be the one to represent the family, not allowing any form of intimidation, make sure he fight for the family.
He will help to protect the younger ones, when someone hears I have a brother, they would not do anything that will harm you to avoid your brother teaching the so called person a lesson.
Someone can not from any where raise their voice at his mum nor try anything silly with her because a guy is in the house.
They help in heavy tasks like, fetching water, sweeping the compound, he can also do those chores a girl will do like, helping mum in kitchen, going to market, assisting younger ones with their assignment and so on.
. they are hard working.

disadvantages 😶

As we all know any thing that has benefits also have demerits, how ever when this boys are not properly trained there are so many problems.
. at times they are not caring enough to look after their younger ones.
. they give much interest in playing games football, and having friends.
. they cannot play and role of a mother towards their younger ones.
. when he is misbehaving the younger ones will fellow his footsteps.

introduce your family first born to us.

Our family first born is a female, her name is ANI ifunaya, she is tall, very beautiful, chocolate in complexion, she is well mannered and behaved, intelligent, smart and brave she have good qualities.
She lives in aba abia state nigeria, with us and parents.
She is a student and also a baker, and a very good one at that, she so much love baking, she bakes any thing bake able.

what's so special about her

She is special on her own way, a child of promise, she is helpful, caring, she can cook well, funny and very courageous and so different from her mate and I love ❤️ her very well.

how does she help our family

There are several ways in which she helps
She save my mum the stress of going to the hospital every morning, because my grandpa 👴 is there, so she goes there after which she is off to work.
She helps in cooking, going to market, by when my mum is back from work, she will just eat, bath and rest.
She also help in taking care of us
She also bake our birthday cake 🍰 and some other things she is really of a good help.

How should parents prepare frist children ahead of responsiblies they will face in the family.

. They should teach them those things
. they should make them know is something important they must accomplish in the family
. parents should let them start at there young age
. let them see you doing it and see the important of it.

CONCLUSION
This is all I can say both gender are both important to every family 👪. Let meet in my next entry.