Interesting I find to read you consider yourself a 'common guy'. Common people do not visit university, do not have the luxury to study they are put at work. Work long and hard, dirty work and get paid less.

It's proved family and partners are the first who lie and cheat on us. Why don't we see it? Because we believe they are close, we can trust them.

About the cats. Perhaps they should stay with your ex and you give some others needing a home a good place to be once you have your own place?

I wonder what will happen to your parents since you say they need help, someone to care for them.

I think having children to please your parents is not a wise idea. Children need more, way more than caring parents. The future is not bright and a child born today will never have the future, chances we had. No freedom,most likely not studying, no job, no savings, no voice and a health controlled by Big Pharma. My heart bleeds for my children and I truly hope those who do not have children will never take them.
Already too many suffer from depressions, many commit suicide. I want my children to have a good life. Not living in poverty. They need skills to survive, to learn how to do more with less and to not listen to threats, fear spread by a handful of people ruling the entire world.

I agree everyone deserves to be happy, to share life with someone who respects and appreciate you.

Bill Gates says the Big Reset is a fact. You have no choice, people will be eliminated... If you ask me that's not an empty threat and should be taken seriously.

It's good to hear you found a job. Sounds to me you have perspective and plans for the nearest future. I wish you all the best.