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RE: DIVORCE ONE OF THE CAUSES OF FATHERLESS HOMES AROUND THE WORLD TODAY. (ABSENT FATHHERS)
With us not many people are married. Instead of marriage they live together. An other option is to sign a "living together contract". The only difference with marriage is if it ends up in a divorce there won't be a fight, judge, CPS, about the children. Custody is for the parent both parents agreed with in a different way or if not the mother (care and financial custody).
If it comes to absent fathers... you will not miss a father you never knew and will be glad if an abusive, violent father is gone. No child needs a bad example. Not if it comes to the father, not if it comes to the mother.
Finances are the biggest problem for sure and the idea love survives everything isn't true.
it is very difficult for a child who hasn't got a father to easily succeed in life. some single mother has done their best to make sure their child or children have all they need. what then happens to the very poor single mothers who even find it difficult to care for themself before adding a child to their load. men are supposed to take care of their children whether they love the mother or not.
I agree a man should support the child but the fact is they don't not even if the court tells them to do so. Men easily start a new life and the society accepts it. I heard men say they rather live the life of a homeless as paying child support for their child.
Men like these aren't a good example for a child. The only thing a child learns it's fine to leave if you are a boy because women take care of it, of all.
Like the expression here says "who receives it can keep it" (read care for it).
Also very often said by men "I am too young to be a dad".
Kind of weird a girl can never use that excuse.