I never faked my grades nor did my children. Hate, envy is a nasty thing. It would help if parents and teachers encourage each child. Both easily seem to like to compare and no matter how great some children are it's never good enough. I experienced that with my children and teachers.

The youngest skipped the 2nd grade at primary school read in the highest level and the teacher wrote down in the report of the 3rd grade: keep practising reading to get better (there was no better).

Other child: each report exactly the same remarks that didn't make any sense. 🤔