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RE: Contest | 25-Word Comment - Monkey Business | Cheating - 6 Steem
How are you all? I hope everyone is well. Alhamdulillah I am fine too. Today I will be taking part in a beautiful comment contest of the steem for Betterlife community. Thank you @wakeupkitty.pal for organizing such a beautiful even.
Hearing about cheating reminds me of some incidents in my own life. I have been the victim of many scams. My very close friend cheated me a lot of money. I trusted him a lot and gave him money to do business, but he did not respect my trust and took my money and left the city. I saved this money little by little every month. I was very broken because a close friend cheated me with a lot of hard money. Now I am moving more freely than before. But the betrayal of this close friend still shakes my conscience.
@sojib1996,
I am not very surprised to see that you have confessed to many big frauds in your life. You may be surprised by my words. But this is the reality. There are many people walking around wearing the mask of politeness in our society. They are cheaters.
Brother @Sojib1996, I request you to be more aware. But I will not ask you to distrust anyone. You must trust people, but before that, you should do a lot of verification. I hope that you will not fall for such cheaters in the future.
it is hard to trust if family and best friends backstab and don't care about how you feel, if you manage and worse of al you see them live a luxury life.
@wakeupkitty sir. how are you?
Everyone in the society does not live under the same label. Some live in the upper class and some in the lower class. It is a part of our society. One is enjoying all kinds of privileges and I am deprived and living a poor life. But I will say that we have a lot of learning from here.
There is also the material to increase self-confidence. From here it will be known whether I have the habit of cheating. If I can control myself even after seeing such situations, I can take the next incident easily then I am real. I can change as a person. And if I am affected by greed like a cheater, then I need to understand that I need correction.
So I would say that understanding Sattika's attitude and society's high and low situations is needed.
You made some good points.
If not interested in material, success or whatever is offered and seen by society (due to commercials?) as a need doesn't lack self-confidence and lives a more (worry) free life.
For sure plenty change. We do if we grow older and no longer see what ithers long for as a personal achievement. The questions is how to correct those who cheat (out of greed and otherwise) especially if you live under a different label.
#wewrite & #comment. Did you start already? @shahid76
Hellow, @wakeupkitty.pal,how are you?
Cheating seems to have become the norm these days. The situation is such that when we hear that someone has cheated, we are not surprised, rather it seems to be a normal issue.
We can solve this tendency to cheat by taking some steps. One of them is love. In my opinion, love is a power that makes the impossible possible.
Yes, I have already started my work little by little.
#wewrite #comment
I learned that love, being kind, even mention you know someone cheats on does not work. The cheater is rarely smart enough to chsnge since it pays. Also if you are once cheated by someone and acceot that you start attracting mainly abusive people because they knkw you are an idiot and it is easy to lie in your face, manipulate you in the name of love or make you feel pity.
As ahuman you also have the plight to correct and educate. If we do so with our children why not with adults who misbehave? If you look away with them there's no need for norms and values or raise, drill children or?
I am fine, thanks for asking. Are you into art?
#wewrite & #comment
Thank you so much for your valuable feedback.I still believe cheaters can be brought back to the right path through love. Although a few days ago I fell for a cheater and I lost quite a bit of money. He was a close friend of mine. But I still don't hate him but I pity him.
Thank you very much for asking me. I do a small job. Not involved in any art. But I like art. So sometimes I do amateur art with my children. Which is funny to me.
#wewrite & #comment
Semoga kejadian beliau ini menjadi berkah, serta pelajaran yang berharga kedepan nanti.
Here we can shake hands it happened to me twice. First my ex (a good reason to dump a guy as soon as possible) and next a friend. Always "great" to have friends backstabbing and draining you. After all those years I am still mad if I think of it. The worst of all is that both lived freely and left me with a financial mess and didn't care for a second how I would survive with my children.
Will I forgive? Never and I admit if I had had a shotgun I would have shot them years ago.
Do I believe justice will deal with them? No. They are rewarded for their behaviour and the banks I informed in time all lied and let me pay for their mistakes.
If it comes to the experience above I tell you (and myself) never, ever give money to a friend or family no matter how hard they beg or try to manipulate you.
I wish you strength and hope fake friends will never show up in front of my car.
Untuk itu, kita juga tidak bisa mempercai sembarangan orang. Padahal kita berniat untuk membantunya, tapi setega itu dia terhadap diri kita ini yang ikhlas membantunya. Semoga kedepan kebaikan dan keinsafan akan menghampirinya.
Semoga anda mendapatkan kesuksesan selalu, dan juga selalu mau membantu orang lain yang membutuhkan bantuan.