My Love Story
Love is a beautiful thing and is enjoyed with partners who really have a good understanding of what love is. I once was in love some times ago when I was single. I started falling in love with a young handsome and intelligent boy at the age of 7. As little as I was, I always had an exciting feeling any time I see this young boy. As at the time he was already in secondary school while I was in primary 4. He knew I always admired him and will do funny things that will make me laugh. It all started in the Sunday school. If I go to Sunday school or church and he is not there, I will not be as excited if he is around. Everything he does was always fun for me and will make me happy. We grew together until he started the polytechnic while I went to secondary school and as at this time distance had separated us.
One holiday when we visited the village we happened to travel back to the city together and later went our separate ways because he was at Calabar while I was in Uyo. Even in his absence I was still having feelings for him and really desired we could spend the rest of our life together. This was not possible because a lot of things later set in and he got married to another woman.
One special thing about this my love was that he was very caring and romantic. I could remember the days I used to visit him in school he doesn't allow me to do anything, he can cook delicious meals and does every domestic work perfectly well. It is quite unfortunate that we did not eventually marry.
I would say that I am not in love with my husband that I am married to today, though I was at the first instance of our meeting but lost the love and respect I had for him as his character unfolded. It is really sad that we did not date before our marriage since he proposed to me and started the marriage rights immediately.
The most embarrassing thing about my husband is when I was pregnant in 2020 and on etaha market day I asked him to give me money to buy clothes for the unborn baby and he called me a mad woman and the next thing was to beat me up and strangled my neck promising to kill me. He is a man who women used to do this for and has never boasted of a single thing he has done for a woman but can always be boastful of the things women did for him. He is not caring and romantic. He is abusive. I hate my husband and wish I never got married to him. There is nothing exciting about him and I am planning on living the marriage. I deserve to be loved and cared for. I deserve to be in love. My love story at the moment is a sad one.
I desire a man that is loving and caring. A man who knows his responsibility and does it without complaining. A man who doesn't feel that he is doing too much for his family and is not ready to do extra to care for his family if need arises.
Many people pretend and coverup their men because of shame or whatever reason that is best known to them. I will not pretend and die in silence.
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I'm so sorry about how your husband treated you, you're right everyone deserves to love and be loved, one of the things I hate in marriage is domestic violence, and unfaithfulness, it's my breaking point. Well, I just hope your husband will change for the better, have you tried some other strategies with him, maybe kindness? Who knows you may win with this. But you have the final say whether to stay or not. May you find love.
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Thank you for your comment. May be I will try that to see if it works. Amen to your prayers.
I can really relate that childhood love, it's usually everything sweet💕 and beautiful.
It's so disheartening someone who should be loving and caring turning into monster. I hate the aspect of beating and abuse, that's terrific.
I'm very sorry about that, I hope he'll realise his behaviors and turn a new leaf and even better than expected.
Here's sending you lots of love and hugs.
Thank you for your kind words, love and hugs. It is much appreciated.
You're welcome dear.
Saya sangat sedih membacanya hal yang paling memalukan yang suamimu lakukan itu sudah di luar batas wajar, mengatakan kamu gila, memukulmu dan mencekikmu serta mengancam akan membunuhmu, padahal posisimu sedang mengandung anaknya.
Saya berfikir adakah manusia sejahat itu?